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I thought now that I work at home and no longer at an office every day that this type of situation would not come up anymore but it has once again reared its ugly head. One of my coworkers sent out an email while I was away soliciting contributions for a gift for our boss. I have always been taught that gifts should flow down in a business environment, not up. It’s an ethical dilemma for a boss to accept a gift from someone who’s salary and bonus and workload they control.
I’ve always bought gifts when I had people who reported to me or administrative support staff but never for my boss. Now I am faced with the situation of contributing to this gift for a boss who is new and likely will be put on the spot by this gift and have to run out and get gifts for the six of us who now work for her, or being the only one in the group whose name is not on the group gift.
I’m really annoyed with my coworker for starting this but while I was away everyone else decided to contribute. Am I being a Scrooge? What’s the right thing to do here?
I’ve always bought gifts when I had people who reported to me or administrative support staff but never for my boss. Now I am faced with the situation of contributing to this gift for a boss who is new and likely will be put on the spot by this gift and have to run out and get gifts for the six of us who now work for her, or being the only one in the group whose name is not on the group gift.
I’m really annoyed with my coworker for starting this but while I was away everyone else decided to contribute. Am I being a Scrooge? What’s the right thing to do here?