The first few times I fell in love with some wedding shots I took and then watched the customer pick out the nastys in the bunch I was shocked. How could they not pick the shots with the best composition? How could they not pick the ones with the best color and lighting?
Then I remembered that I had already cashed their check.
I think that critiques here sometimes wander off into the corn fields. I posted some selective color a few months back and most of what I got was "jeez I don't like selective color". That helps. I don't really like it either, but that's waht the customer asked for and I was looking for opinions about selective color. Does it matter that I don't like them? No. Does it matter that most here don't like them? No. What matters is I fufilled the order from my customer and they were happy.
I think it IS important to learn from each other here, but in the end nothing matters except for what the client wants.
Now... let's seperate the three aspects of my photography right now and talk about who's opinion matters where... This may be wandering off into those same corn fields I just whined about.
1) Weddings / Portraits - This is where I make most of my income from photography. Whatever the customer wants is what they get here. I laugh to myself when a client asks me for an opinion and then does whatever they want anyway. This is photography they are buying for their home or office. My photographic education or opinion doesn't matter to them when they look at the print on the wall... they just want something pretty.
Don;t get me wrong I really love wedding photography and I am always trying to better myself, but from experience people buy the "same old same old" more often than not. Does that mean I don't shoot cool things in a neat different style when I can? Nope, but it does mean I dang sure get the boring shots because they sell like crazy!!!
2) Photojournalism - I may move into photojournalism later in life, so I practice this when I can to build my portfolio and build relationships in the industry. I'm a freelancer for 2 local papers, the Associated Press and the Canadian Press. I don't too often set out to do this type of work except for hurricanes or major disasters so more often than not it's just stumbling across a crash or a fire. I strive to get good creative shots, but I realize that in the end the photo editor is the only persons opinion who matters.
3) Landscape / Nature / Travel - I love nature, travel and landscape photography. I sell framed prints of my work, but at this point it's just icing on the cash cake - not real serious money. I have sold images to a few calendar houses, but it was for cheap. This is where I RULE THE CASTLE. Nobody else matters here - I would rather end up with a piece of art that I know is my vision and not sell it than take pictures of the same crap every photographer has at the art shows. This is where my opinion is king and I certainly get great ideas and suggestions here at the Photo Forum.
Okay back on task...
I think as photographers and as business people we have to be able to recognize when we should be pushing our opinions and styles and when we should just say "yes ma'am" and push the shutter release... to me some photography is personal and some is just business.
Pete you mention delivering a mediocre photo, but who thinks it's mediocre? If the customer thinks so then I agree you're in trouble, but if it's you who thinks it mediocre I think you should remember they might think it's the cat's meow!