I'm so excited that you're here, haha. I went to school for Recording and have worked as an audio engineer off and on since graduation (how wonderfully steady the industry is, haha). And I have been trying to find a good community of people online, but I can't, for the life of me, find a good forum. Would you mind PMing me the forum and/or several others that you were referring to in your post?? :sillysmi:
I'm only responding here because some of what I will say applies to photography the same way it does to audio engineering.
I too went to Audio Engineering school once upon a time when I wanted to change career. I was not in a town with a lot of possibilities except for concert sound which I did for about 2 years before giving it up because it interfered with my paying business
Probably unlike you, through my photo I had good contacts in the industry and could easily have found work in a very good studio. I was actually planning to move to Europe to work at Peter Gabriel's place, the best studio at the time. And no, I was not going to be an engineer from the get go. I was going in as a gopher...
Thing is, I met a woman and I chose her and her kids over the music career. That was my choice and I don't regret it.
Now, you need to make that choice too. Career or whatever else is in your life. Allentown is not the best place to be for either photo or music. You need to do what it takes to get the career going and one of those is to move where those industries happen.
You also have to be willing to get in on the ground floor. Gopher in a recording studio or lowest assistant in a photo studio. Btw, I started as a war photog. After 12 years when I'd had enough of it and decided to go commercial, I assisted two photogs for about two years because I knew nothing of that world and I had to learn.
Yes, moving to New York, LA, or Nashville (or even out of country. Used to be that people wanting to get in the fashion photo biz went to Milan, Italy) with a job that pays peanuts is scary but it is a lot easier when you are young.
Again, I can only repeat myself here, you and anyone else wanting a career in one of those industries need to be willing to do what it takes. No, it's not easy but neither is a life spent at McDonald. And, let's be honest, this is true of just about any industry one can think of.
If this inspires just one member, I'll be happy.