Welcome.
Basic advice: follow the Chicago rule of voting when it comes to TPF....participate early and often. The more you get involved, the more you get out of it.
Other more specific advice:
--when you ask for advice, you get a good rep (and more future responses) when you follow up your request with "okay, here's how it worked out, here's a sample of the results, here's what I learned from it all." It's always gratifying to offer advice to a request...and then a week later get some closure about what advice worked or didn't and so on.
--Be specific. There are some people on here with fantastic bases of knowledge. So you could just post a question like "what lens should I add to my equipment?" Or you could post, "I"m a nikon shooter, emphasis on weddings, I currently have the following lens XYZ, want something for studio portraits pre-wedding...what would you recommend?"
--Do search previous threads. There is a lot of stuff on here about weddings ranging from a checklist of poses, different shooting styles, managing bridezillas, tricky lighting, using backup or 2nd shooters, etc. Doesn't mean you can't post on that. But when you can reference an older thread and explain how you're asking something beyond that, it leads to a richer and deeper discussion