I'm a Vegas type wedding guy. Run in, bring a dozen of your dearest people, run out. My fiancé is not. I've been watching the cost of my humble wedding escalate to the ridiculous. Dresses, Cakes, video men, bands, table decorations, flowers and on and on... Last night I snapped when I was told that I have to pay 150 to send out wedding notices to people that arent coming and werent invited, old school class mates etc. It was just too much for me and I fnuckig snapped, badly. Since my wedding will be in Slovakia (assuming there still will be one) its now run a total of almost 10k. If we were to put on the same show in Ireland it would be 30k+ which is becoming the norm here. So what did your wedding cost? I need to know that there are sane people out there.