As an example...in a used car lot, there's 10 used cars available to choose from. Which one would your wife choose?
The shiny one, of course...
But you'd pick the Lamborghini over in the corner that needs a wash and has a couple of dings in it...
Unless I know in advance which AF point the camera is most likely to pick, I will usually force center AF point only, or, choose a specific AF point to be selected via camera settings. Yes, when there's a good, clear subject 'up front' to choose from (such as a portrait), even full Auto with a gazillion AF points will pick the right subject. But a somewhat diagonal line of small group of people...the camera will likely pick the closest person or object...