In Camera sharpening D7000?

[SlasherPay]

I bought a D7000 a month ago and loving everything about it, except for just one concern that the images are a bit soft. So my question is for experienced D7000 owners. I read "Picture Controls" don't apply on RAW Files, however when I actually set the camera to RAW and clicked a series of pictures, the camera DID apply picture control (see attachment). How can I get rid of picture control during my captures?
Secondly, Standard is the only picture control available in Auto Mode. But "Standard" picture control at its default settings blurs all images captured in Auto Mode. Even if I go ahead and "tweak" Standard picture control, still the default one is used there. SO, how can I disable this Picture Control or tweak it in AUTO Mode?

I will appreciate your responses

 

[KmH]

The rear LCD cannot display the Raw image file.
Instead it displays a Basic size (thumbnail) JPEG that is embedded in the Raw image file. The Picture Control settings are applied to that JPEG, not to the Raw file.

 

[KmH]

. . . If I like to shoot portraits with lots of bokeh . . .

In the context you used the term bokeh, you are describing depth-of-field.
Bokeh and depth-of-field (DoF) are not the same thing.
Bokeh is not adjustable. There can't be more or less of it from any specific lens.