I tend to not even answer the door when someone knocks and I'm not expecting anybody, especially if it's after dark. As a female living alone, I just don't take chances. If they knock, I ignore it. If I hear anything that sounds like they are trying to get in, or aren't going to go away, I call the cops.
I'd FAR rather explain to a legitimate representative of some company why I called the cops on them, than to end up letting someone in that has less than honest motives.
Back in Dec. 2004, when my dad was in the hospital (shortly before he passed away in Jan. 2005), I was spending a lot of time at the hospital, including some overnights. We had to take turns and have someone with Dad every minute or the hospital would have put restraints on him, because he tended to forget where he was and start trying to rip out the IVs. Anyway, my boys were then 14 and 12 years old--if I was going to stay at the hospital overnight, I'd have someone come stay with them. But otherwise, I let them stay home alone until I got there; we'd had LOTS of discussions about what they were to do when they were there alone. One night, I was still at the hospital later than I'd intended, so I called the boys to update them. While I was on the phone, the oldest says, "Oh hang on a minute, someone's at the door." I said, "DO NOT answer that door!!" It was after 10:00 at night, and there was simply NO reason for anyone to be knocking on our door! My oldest son just could NOT understand what my problem with it was. He said, "But what if their car broke down?" My response: "Then they go across the street and knock on THEIR door, and an ADULT can decide whether to help them or not. But YOU are not to answer that door, for any reason whatsoever."
About three nights later, I was at home and again, someone knocked, then started banging, on the door. It was nearly 11 p.m. this time. AGAIN, my oldest son gets up off the couch and heads toward the door!!
It is a WONDER that boy is still alive
and probably still answers the door for perfect strangers in the middle of the night.
