I hope you have a lot of money ...
Weddings - sorry, I can't say much here
Wildlife - DSLR, APS-C will give you an extra reach, fast AF, low noise at high ISO, availability of long focal length lens 400mm+ with stabilization (in lens or camera)
Underwater - availability of waterproof housing down to at least 40m with strobes, full frame, low noise at high ISO, availability of bright ultra wide angle lens
Suggest you have a separate camera for underwater as there is always the chance of a leak. UW housings and strobes are very expensive for DSLR's, cheaper for mirror-less cameras.
Wildlife is mostly about the lens. Good long focal length lenses will cost you $1000.00+
My wildlife setup ... Sony A57 + 70-400mm G ... about $2000.00+, I think this is considered the cheap end.
My underwater ... Sony Nex-3 + 18-70mm + Polaroid housing ... about $250 ... but this is NOT a serious setup. I would get a Nex-6 + Zeiss 12mm + Nauticam housing and port, I estimate about $3000+