I do have to defend Joes position. For us nerds who are able to take part in this advanced discussion, many things are somewhat logical. Of course, if the sun goes down it gets dark, and we have to compensate for that.
But some beginners don´t get that. From reading many facebook groups, here in the forum and also from people asking me when I´m out and about shooting, I know that some beginners usually don´t take the light situation into the equation. They only think in their exposure triangle, and that gets them confused. I for one have never used the phrase exposure triangle at all - having a triangle doesn´t really make it easier to understand, so it doesn´t add anything.
I for one will try to change my language from now on.
One thing that hasn´t been answered yet though is:
How would you call that brightness of the image, made up of "incomming" light, aperture diameter, shutter speed and ISO, that is commonly referred to as exposure?
Yep, you've zeroed in on the source of the problem here. When Alan first posted he used the term "proper exposure." He was never thinking of "exposure." In Wayne's first post (2nd sentence after throwing an insult) he uses the term "satisfactorily exposed." I quoted a definition earlier from Ilford's The Manual of Photography which is one of the most respected references in our discipline. They address this issue in the text and they solve it by carefully using two different terms. They explain why. "Exposure" they insist has a clear meaning and it's critical that it's definition not be confused with what they decide to call "camera exposure." "Camera exposure" includes ISO. They settle on "camera exposure" because the other options are too loaded with subjective land mines. Defining "exposure" is simple and it's settled. We settled it a long time ago. "Correct exposure" or "proper exposure" or "satisfactory exposure" is something else and if we set about trying to define that in this venue we're in for a much bumpier ride than we've gotten so far.
There are good reasons to keep these two concepts separate; Ilford found it necessary. But they both have the word "exposure" in them and it's really hard to get folks to understand the distinction and the need for it. When you tell everyone that ISO is not an "exposure" determinant they hear you saying ISO is not a "correct exposure" determinant and that they think is just crazy.
Unfortunately we're stuck here. "Proper exposure" was used by both Alan and Wayne. That's what most photographers mean when they say "exposure." It's a colloquial usage. What exactly is "proper exposure"? The next step sends you straight down the rabbit hole. Is it the translation of a specific gray value in the scene to a specific gray value in an RGB image? How is a light meter adjusted? In any attempt to try and define "proper exposure" it won't be long before someone comes along with, "it's whatever you want it to be, it's completely subjective!"
Ilford's solution feels unsatisfactory. By using "camera exposure" they decided to just go around the mine field -- not goin' there, ha! When it comes time to understand how our cameras actually work (throughout this thread I kept repeating "cause and effect") we need the established meaning of the term "exposure." We can't let that term and it's definition be changed. So we still have your question what term do we use when we mean; "that brightness of the image, made up of "incomming" light, aperture diameter, shutter speed and ISO, that is commonly referred to as exposure?" I think it's too established colloquially and we're stuck with it and we're stuck with the conflicting meanings. Just always use the adjective of your choice (correct, proper, satisfactory, etc.) in front of exposure when you don't mean exposure.
As for the definition of "correct exposure" -- I'm not goin' there, ha!
Joe
EDIT: The exposure triangle mess is unfortunate. Beginners need to learn to use and adjust their cameras. The ET as a model can be helpful at first. Many enthusiast photographers will never need to move beyond that and enough said.
The folks who spread the ET model around found it satisfying to create this balanced structure so that each side/vertice of the triangle has equal weight to the other sides. Each side adjusts exposure, oops "correct exposure" while at the same time also adjusting an independent variable. The independent variable they chose for ISO is noise.
For most of us the noise we see in our photos is shot noise. Shot noise is a function of exposure. The less you expose a digital sensor the more shot noise you're going to see. ISO correlates with this in that if we use the camera meter and raise the ISO then the meter recalculates a reduced exposure which gives us more shot noise. Correlation and cause are two very different things.
There is however a factor that ISO is causally responsible for. Increasing ISO reduces DR. Here's a graph of DR over ISO for a Nikon D7200:
Photographic Dynamic Range versus ISO Setting. When ISO brightens the sensor output before or during ADC it's shaving DR straight off the top. Clipped highlights in a high ISO value image get clipped by the ISO brightening and may not be clipped in the exposure. The ET would make more sense if the independent variable associated with ISO were DR. At least in that case a causal relationship would exist. Then if they could just stop calling it the exposure triangle.....