I like the ergonomic on the 700D, but if your budget is limiting, 1200D can be a good start. I would also suggest a 100D because it shares almost the same features of the 700D but a bit smaller and cheaper, better ergonomic than the 1200D and the sensor is newer too.
For the kit, I would suggest an 18-135mm or just take both 18-55mm and 55-250mm!
Lenses beginners should have after the kit!: EFS10-18mm, EFS55-250mm, EF50mm f/1.8
Consumer lens with STM are the latest version.
I would prefer getting a cheaper camera so that you can spend more on lenses and accessories.
All the best.