I havent used strobes in a long while, I mainly shoot with flashes, which dont have a modeling lamp. So I'm going on memory from a few years ago (and my memory isnt the best lol).
You can adjust the two independently to give you the flexibility to see the shadows and light fall brighter or darker with the modeling lamp. If you are in a dark place, you may not need to have really bright modeling lights. If you are in a bright area, you may want to crank that modeling light to actually see something. As long as you are maintaining similar ratios, you are fine. The modeling light will not have the same power output as the strobe, so you are only judging light placement and where the shadows fall.
If your lamps go from say 1-10, it is pointless to set your main light to strobe to 8, modeling light to 2. And then on your fill light, set the strobe to 2 and modeling to 8. Defeats the purpose. I would think setting them to the same level is ideal. You can probably get by with a main light strobe at 6 and modeling light at 4, with a fill light strobe at 3 and modeling light at 2. It is the ratios you are looking for.
Firing a strobe takes power and the bulbs have limited life span, so using a modeling lamp will allow you to save usage on your strobes.
But as I shoot with flashes, I dont have modeling lights. So I set to the best of my thinking, fire a test shot, re-adjust.
Now note that I might be totally talking out of my ass as monolights are not my thing, just trying to logically think it through. If I'm off, someone please correct me. And if you are taking classes, this is the perfect question for the teacher
