AmberAtLoveAndInk
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So I'm wondering if any you forum members run into the same situation with other people as I am about to explain.
My father-in-law, he is a wonderful man that always means well, his wife included. They are both great to me and love their grandson and for the most part have supported my business... the only thing is... I'm not sure they actually think it's a business..
My mother-in-law is a bit better at hiding her surprise but when we go over for Sunday dinner (they live a block over from us) and I talk about my upcoming shoot or meeting going on this month, my father-in-law acts shocked as ever. Congratulating me on a simple meeting like I'm 5.. or in public appearances, this one really embarrassed the hell out of me, I was going to get a new phone and my father-in-law came with since he knows nothing of high tech phones and was thinking of upgrading his too. The sales guy asks what ill be using this most for to get a good idea for the right phone for me, I told him id like a bigger screen with voice commands for GPS since I'm a photographer and like to show people my work and drive to location most of the time. My father-in-law chimes in: "Ya! She's uhhh... uhh.. an amateur/semi pro photographer. In fact, she's got a meeting this weekend!"
Oh. My. God.
Talk about a slap in the face. The sales guy smiled and nodded and I walked away red faced.
Then, last night we all go for dinner (me, my husband, our son & his parents) and my father-in-law says he picked me up something he thinks ill really enjoy. Really? I ask, well that was nice of you!! He tells me its a DVD course on beginners photography... 20, 30min sessions on teaching ISO, aperture, shutter speed and using your gear in manual mode...
It's one of those extremely cheesy "You can be a pro in 2 weeks!" kind of DVD that has horrible "professional" images on the front that I would consider much worse compared to my work.
Really?!?! Sometimes i just want to scream. I HAVE BEEN IN BUSINESS FOR A FULL YEAR. I am, in my opinion doing quite well! I appreciate the gift, I do, but these are things I am well aware of and use everyday! I have been shooting strictly in M mode for months!!
Maybe I'm being a big baby and taking things too personally, but after a year of being in business and them knowing full well I get paid to do my "job" I would think they would start treating it as a job instead of a hobby, and instead of introducing me to friends of theirs as Alex's wife and then saying I'm a stay at home mom, they could tell people I'm a PHOTOGRAPHER. ughh. Anyway, needed that off my chest, anyone else get this kind of treatment from friends or family??
My father-in-law, he is a wonderful man that always means well, his wife included. They are both great to me and love their grandson and for the most part have supported my business... the only thing is... I'm not sure they actually think it's a business..
My mother-in-law is a bit better at hiding her surprise but when we go over for Sunday dinner (they live a block over from us) and I talk about my upcoming shoot or meeting going on this month, my father-in-law acts shocked as ever. Congratulating me on a simple meeting like I'm 5.. or in public appearances, this one really embarrassed the hell out of me, I was going to get a new phone and my father-in-law came with since he knows nothing of high tech phones and was thinking of upgrading his too. The sales guy asks what ill be using this most for to get a good idea for the right phone for me, I told him id like a bigger screen with voice commands for GPS since I'm a photographer and like to show people my work and drive to location most of the time. My father-in-law chimes in: "Ya! She's uhhh... uhh.. an amateur/semi pro photographer. In fact, she's got a meeting this weekend!"
Oh. My. God.
Talk about a slap in the face. The sales guy smiled and nodded and I walked away red faced.
Then, last night we all go for dinner (me, my husband, our son & his parents) and my father-in-law says he picked me up something he thinks ill really enjoy. Really? I ask, well that was nice of you!! He tells me its a DVD course on beginners photography... 20, 30min sessions on teaching ISO, aperture, shutter speed and using your gear in manual mode...
It's one of those extremely cheesy "You can be a pro in 2 weeks!" kind of DVD that has horrible "professional" images on the front that I would consider much worse compared to my work.
Really?!?! Sometimes i just want to scream. I HAVE BEEN IN BUSINESS FOR A FULL YEAR. I am, in my opinion doing quite well! I appreciate the gift, I do, but these are things I am well aware of and use everyday! I have been shooting strictly in M mode for months!!
Maybe I'm being a big baby and taking things too personally, but after a year of being in business and them knowing full well I get paid to do my "job" I would think they would start treating it as a job instead of a hobby, and instead of introducing me to friends of theirs as Alex's wife and then saying I'm a stay at home mom, they could tell people I'm a PHOTOGRAPHER. ughh. Anyway, needed that off my chest, anyone else get this kind of treatment from friends or family??