ok girls...

[ShutteredEye]

So what am I? The forum slut? I haven't even been back for 3 days.

Whoah. That's a heck of a leap.... no one said anything remotely like you were a slut?

I'm sorry if my posts made you feel that way. I thought it was all in good fun. :meh:

Regards,

 

[ferny]

found one

the sun can do horrible things to your skin

 

[karissa]

Mountainlander, Nothing you said directly offended me. I think you are still to new to trully understand. My beef is more with the older members of this forum that give the impression that I am not an intellegent human and that the only reason I am on this forum is to please them by posting photos of my body. Heck for all they know I have gained 30 pounds since I have been away.

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I should have been more spacific in my previouse post. I am offended by how fast things went from "Hi glad to see you" to "Post those bikini pics back up". I honestly regret ever posting those in the first place now. I can not be taken seriously anymore. I'm not saying I don't like to joke and have fun but I feel much like the majority of the people here see me as an hairheaded cheerleader. (No offence to any cheerleaders out there, I knew some that where very wonderful people I'm more refering to the stariotype).

In all reality before this thread took a dive down, I was going to post a more recent picture of me since it has been a long time since I have been here on the forum. However, now I am afraid of what will happen if I do and probably will not post pictures.

I'm sorry for bringing your fun to a grinding halt but it was getting a little scary to me. Honestly, thank you mountain for realizing I can say something seriouse. I was worried that even that comment would slip by as a joke.

I like to joke and have fun but I don't like to be treated like I'm only good for my body.

As a quick note to the newbies who just barly know me. Please don't feel like I'm directing this to you. This is not just about this thread or even the last 3 days. It goes back to threads like it when I was on the forum last summer.

 

[karissa]

found one

the sun can do horrible things to your skin

Oh my gosh!:shock: Ferny! Thats discusting! What a picture to wake up and see!uke-rig:

I don't want to know where you found that!

 

[ferny]

I don't know if you felt that way about me but I'll chime in anyway.

I think I know what you look like. I may have seen a picture of you in a black skirt ages ago? To be honest I'm not sure and for some odd reason I get you confused with Carlita from time to time (yup, I'm thick). Actually, I thought Carlita was you for a little while and that you'd just changed your avatar. :shock: I think I joined just before you went away. *quickly tries to prevent a black eye*

To me looks don't mean all that much. I tend to fall for what most people wouldn't consider to be good looking anyway. But who gives a ****? I'm more interested in what's on the inside. The part which has feelings, opinions and is the part of a person you actually fall in love or become friends with. If she's got great eyes and a gorgeous smile that's just a bonus.

So, who gives a **** if people are going to letch over you? I've never been in that position myself so can't imagine what it'd feel like. I assume its fun at first but then soon become tedious. If you feel certain people are getting like that just ignore them and concentrate on the people who want to get you know you for who you are.
You can add people to an ignore list with this forum as well. You'll never see their posts again (until you remove them from the list).

*inserts gum-shield and awaits the slap*

 

[graigdavis]

I brought it up more out of a joke between you and I karissa. We have taken the time outside of the forum to get to know eachother. I knew it could stay a joke between you and I. You know I think you are an amazing person. Hot bod or not.

haha, you gain 30lb? And Im the new pope.

 

[ferny]

Oh my gosh!:shock: Ferny! Thats discusting! What a picture to wake up and see!uke-rig:

I don't want to know where you found that!

It's from my personal stash. In the pile marked "hasn't trimmed bikini line for a while".
:blushing:

I'm a bit worried about the nipple hair though. She looks like a half shaved badger. :shock:

 

[danalec99]

You posted the s*** statement right after my post, so allow me...

Noone questioned your intelligence. I too thought this was in good fun. Sorry you felt that way.
Have a splendid day!

 

[ferny]

I'd just add that I would like a picture. I like to know who's behind the words, you know? Always seems nicer when you can imagine someone looking at a monitor.


You can add "odd" to the "thick" as well.

 

[karissa]

Haha.. Ok, I'm sorry.. Ferny, your comments on the nipple hair... I can't get over.. Woah... half shaved badger is right. Yikes!

I'm not going to slap anyone. I'm offened but I have not lost my head in anger.

Ferny, yes, people leaching all over you is a problem. It's nice for about 2 seconds and then you relize why they are and then it's no fun anymore. It quickly turns into feeling degrading.

I was afraid to say anthing about this because I don't want everone to take it to the other extream and never joke with me anymore. I am not against a comment here and there but please keep things within reason.

 

[karissa]

I'd just add that I would like a picture. I like to know who's behind the words, you know? Always seems nicer when you can imagine someone looking at a monitor.


You can add "odd" to the "thick" as well.

Haha.... Now that.. I can understand.

I think we are all a little "odd" or "thick" in our own way.

Wait.. you got me confused with who?

 

[karissa]

You posted the s*** statement right after my post, so allow me...

Noone questioned your intelligence. I too thought this was in good fun. Sorry you felt that way.
Have a splendid day!

:hugs: Thanks, it was fun.. up until a point.

I just hope I haven't made everyone to scared to talk to me.

 

[ferny]

Ferny, yes, people leaching all over you is a problem. It's nice for about 2 seconds and then you relize why they are and then it's no fun anymore. It quickly turns into feeling degrading.

I always wonder if I'm coming across like one to people. I have certain insecurities which I won't go on about. But because of them when I see an attractive woman or some beating themselves up when they shouldn't I tend to jump in and make an arse of myself. I just don't want others to feel to way I have/do. If that makes any sense.

So if I say "phwoar!!! I never knew you looked so good" please take it as a complement and not an "excuse me, I've just got to run off and... be right back...". That goes with everyone I've complimented.

 

[ferny]

I just hope I haven't made everyone to scared to talk to me.

Even more worrying a thought. What if you've made some people even more attracted to you!
Although I am currious to see how you'd react if someone dressed in rubber started chasing after you with a whip. :crazy:

 

[karissa]

Even more worrying a thought. What if you've made some people even more attracted to you!
Although I am currious to see how you'd react if someone dressed in rubber started chasing after you with a whip. :crazy:

Prob. something like this...

:shock:

Does that help?