opposite sex attractions

[anicole]

flirting isn't all about physical attraction. If you can't challenge a mind with anything other than sexual flirting ... take a hike.

A brilliant mind sends me into a rigor a lot faster than a great body.

And chemistry ... whew ... that opens a door, but you have to be able to channel that 'holycowIcan'tbreathe' eye lock into something else ... otherwise you turn blue!

 

[Hertz van Rental]

I did that once a few years ago!!! Loved it. Kept playing with my head though and was always feeling naughty! :lmao:

And I was blonde once (did the eyebrows too).
But I got bored with it and used henna - big mistake. Flourescent orange is just so not me.



I think I've missed a page....

 

[anicole]

I think I've missed a page....

you're on page two ... we need ya on page four, darlin'!

 

[photo gal]

And I was blonde once (did the eyebrows too).
But I got bored with it and used henna - big mistake. Flourescent orange is just so not me.



I think I've missed a page....

Pictures please! :mrgreen:



which page is that?

 

[Hertz van Rental]

Pictures please! :mrgreen:

Would love to - but sadly I don't think any were taken.
And if there were I don't have any.

What about ones of you being a smoothy?

 

[jadin]

I'm going to reply and then read the thread. 'Cause I can!

As an 'aura' person, I notice their aura more than anything. For example, I find myself turning my head as a specific person opens a door. Ten other people may have walked through the same door without me even glancing. But consistently if a certain person opens the door, my head will turn before I can even see their physical person.

Other examples are a crowded room of people. If I glance around a room, my eyes stop on the same people every single time. It doesn't matter how fast I scan the room, or how many people are in it. The same exact people catch my eye everytime. The best part is I know for a fact that they are attracted to me as well. I don't mean for a fact as in they told me so, but their body language actions (aura's) etc prove to me beyond a doubt. I'm so confident I'd bet my firstborn.

The only problem is they are all married. As well as religious, (the ones I'm thinking of as I write this are in my church). I won't get into specific beleifs (to avoid a religious topic), sufficient to say hail: photo_gal) the only way we'd be hooking up without sin is someone dying.

 

[photo gal]

sufficient

 

[photo gal]

Would love to - but sadly I don't think any were taken.
And if there were I don't have any.

What about ones of you being a smoothy?

Yes there are pics. I think I know where they are but they are not here.!

 

[aprilraven]

Yes there are pics. I think I know where they are but they are not here.!

i would love to see those pics if you find them....

when star trek came out as a movie and that one chick had the shaved head, everyone thought she was killer in it... i think it would be cool...

one day, i may do it.... my pallie, nicole has agreed with me, if for any reason one of us has to shave the head, we both will....

thats a real friend!!

the aura thing is true... i sense people..and can feel the " chemestry" and it can just knock your feet out from under you....but let me ask this..

can you feel chemestry across email?...internet...? or phone?? hmm deliema.... :er:

 

[anicole]

i would love to see those pics if you find them....
one day, i may do it.... my pallie, nicole has agreed with me, if for any reason one of us has to shave the head, we both will....

thats a real friend!!

can you feel chemestry across email?...internet...? or phone?? hmm deliema.... :er:

I got your six, Aprilraven ... I'd go bald for ya anytime.:hugs:

Guess I'll ship Hertz my meeces so they don't go to waste, though.

As for chemistry across the miles ... yes. YES!!! I think that knowing someone by email or phone or whatever medium you choose, gives you a deeper insight to them ... assuming the honesty thing is in play. I've conversed with two people over my adult life that went on to deep, relationships.

 

[aprilraven]

now your just braggin'

 

[jadin]

the aura thing is true... i sense people..and can feel the " chemestry" and it can just knock your feet out from under you....but let me ask this..

can you feel chemestry across email?...internet...? or phone?? hmm deliema.... :er:

I'm actually glad you asked that...

I was visiting a friend's house and saw a photo of her absolutely gorgeous friend on her fridge. I was instantly attracted. We all went out to a club that night and I got to meet the girl on the fridge. We were instantly attracted to each other. At the end of the night we traded t-shirts and she even kissed me as we said goodnight. :heart: (I'm not a very forward person)

I was only in town for a few nights so we arranged to go out the next night. Unfortunately I wasn't very mature in dating. (the old religious thing, wasn't allowed to date until I was ready for marriage, it's dwarfed my social abilities to this day) And wound up saying something along the lines of 'I'm looking for a long term relationship'. Which I've since learned, (4 or 5 women later) is suicide on a date.

So nothing ever happened with the girl on the fridge. I went back to my hometown and she continued to sleep with her "monogamous sexual partner". (she was sleeping with this guy when I met her - but not dating him...) But I kept calling her and we'd talk etc.

And then one day I was at work when suddenly I got very upset. I just had to leave. I told my supervisors and they asked 'why?' I couldn't say. I just told them 'I don't know, I have to leave'. They told me it would be unexcused and I told them whatever, I just had to go. The second I walked out of the building I burst into tears. I got into my car and drove around for half an hour waiting for the tears to stop. I didn't want anyone to see me like that so I just kept driving. In my head I could only think of this girl and kept asking "why?" I didn't know if she was dead, or what on earth had happened. Even the radio kept playing songs about broken hearts.

When I finally stopped crying enough to go home, I did so and checked my email. There was only one message. In it she told me she was in love with her "monogamous partner" and that she didn't want to hear from me again. It was sent exactly when I began to feel upset.

I've only seen her the two times. But to this day I miss her.

 

[aprilraven]

jadin.... ok, so stating the long term relationship thing is not a great idea... your parents really didnt do you an injustice... someone will come along, and think, man this guy really listens ..and he really shows feelings for me.. you havent had the bad stuff that makes you almost callous to girls on dates...

i think, given time, you will find some girl that will think you are the world..and she will be pleased as punch to know you dont have "baggage" with you..and every thing with her is a new experience....

your actually such a jewel....and you dont even know it.... keep the head up high..and just know, you are SO worth the wait..!!

 

[Verbal]

April, that's what keeps me goin' in the direction I am... respect to my future girlfriend/wife. Yeah, I could do the "casual dating" scene, but I chose not to. But man, lol sometimes it really bites!

 

[photo gal]

April, that's what keeps me goin' in the direction I am... respect to my future girlfriend/wife. Yeah, I could do the "casual dating" scene, but I chose not to. But man, lol sometimes it really bites!

:hug::