Photo shoot of slim girl

[mmaria]

oh I'm really sad I can't participate in conversation right now

 

[sscarmack]

oh I'm really sad I can't participate in conversation right now

MM, your too hot for this thread hahahahaha

 

[rui silva]

It doesn't matter what hot means to me, only to her because this is about her not me. so you are right in that argument and if yoi read carefully my previous comment I recognized that mistake already

" Actually someone wrote something
really important that I haven't even
thought, and that is to ask her what
parts of her body she wants to to
highlight and what parts she likes least.
So yeah, good advice, thanks."

Edit: I don't think I'm gonna ask her if it's for a playboy application If she didn't tell me in the first place I know my boundaries xD

 

[mmaria]

oh I'm really sad I can't participate in conversation right now

MM, your too hot for this thread hahahahaha

today was a really tough day for me, so thank you for making me smile ss

 

[sscarmack]

oh I'm really sad I can't participate in conversation right now

MM, your too hot for this thread hahahahaha

today was a really tough day for me, so thank you for making me smile ss

We need an 'aweeeee' button in the rating system lol

 

[limr31]

Definitions of "hotness" are absolutely NOT universal, and I must say that it's astonishing that not everyone realizes this. Standards change from culture to culture and even within one culture, standards change over time.

Just a few examples: 8 Ideals of Beauty from Around the World | Travel Blog - Tripbase

Yes, the word "hotness" is a charged word, and I don't think anyone is overreacting when he or she addresses the subject. Rui, by your own admission, you aren't always aware of the connotations that certain words can have in English, so not being fully aware of those attached to the word "hotness", how can you know if Paige is 'overreacting'? Maybe in your mind she is because you don't have the same associations with the word, but perhaps you might also realize that you don't fully understand those associations that we are reacting to.

As for the "of course you'd have an emotional reaction because you're a woman" comment: this is just as short-sighted as the idea that everyone agrees what "hot" is. It also has the added bonus of being insulting. Both ideas are being simplified to the point of being actually wrong.

 

[sscarmack]

Its a fact, women act on emotions and feelings, men act on facts and impulse.

Its not said to be mean or insulting, its the truth. Are you upset now? Do you need a shoulder to cry on?

I'm a lover not a fighter

 

[limr31]

Its a fact, women act on emotions and feelings, men act on facts and impulse.

Its not said to be mean or insulting, its the truth. Are you upset now? Do you need a shoulder to cry on?

I'm a lover not a fighter

It's not a fact, though. Both men and women have both rational thoughts and emotional reactions, and both men and women react to things rationally or emotionally. And sometimes those reactions are co-mingled by both sexes.

Most people like to bandy about the "women are emotional" trope because it's convenient to believe so, but they are still wrong.

 

[sscarmack]

Its a fact, women act on emotions and feelings, men act on facts and impulse.

Its not said to be mean or insulting, its the truth. Are you upset now? Do you need a shoulder to cry on?

I'm a lover not a fighter

It's not a fact, though. Both men and women have both rational thoughts and emotional reactions, and both men and women react to things rationally or emotionally. And sometimes those reactions are co-mingled by both sexes.

Most people like to bandy about the "women are emotional" trope because it's convenient, but they are still wrong.

 

[Derrel]

Its a fact, women act on emotions and feelings, men act on facts and impulse.

Its not said to be mean or insulting, its the truth. Are you upset now? Do you need a shoulder to cry on?

I'm a lover not a fighter

Spoken with all the certainty and youthful smugness a 20-something can muster. "Riiiiiiight...sure thing, dude. But first, take a selfie." Let's overgeneralize some more,shall we, and state another insulting bit of bulls*I=, and let's, you know, for chits and giggles, call it a "fact": People of your age are not wise enough to even know what side the bread is buttered on.

 

[limr31]

THAT is your rational response? Or is it your attempt to elicit an emotional one from me?

 

[sscarmack]

Its a fact, women act on emotions and feelings, men act on facts and impulse.

Its not said to be mean or insulting, its the truth. Are you upset now? Do you need a shoulder to cry on?

I'm a lover not a fighter

Spoken with all the certainty and youthful smugness a 20-something can muster. "Riiiiiiight...sure thing, dude. But first, take a selfie." Let's overgeneralize some more,shall we, and state another insulting bit of bulls*I=, and let's, you know, for chits and giggles, call it a "fact": People of your age are not wise enough to even know what side the bread is buttered on.

I can count on one hand how many 'selfies' I've taken with my phone, the only 'selfies' I take are photography experiments and most kick ass.

There is no overgeneralizing here. Its the truth, and if you don't think so, thats your opinion and thats why you live in 'Merica. Your free to think however you like.

But I'll be a tad bit more specific for you.

Its true MOST women react with emotion over reason when things don't go their way, if you say nay nay. Then your either lying or.....yeah lying.

Do both sexes react emotionally, sure thing. But lets face it, women are a little more emotional. Should be common sense.

 

[Derrel]

Where is that "thread nose-diving into the crapper" emoticon? Anybody know where that went in the TPF overhaul?

 

[sscarmack]

THAT is your rational response? Or is it your attempt to elicit an emotional one from me?

I thought we were playing cat and mouse and you wanted spanked, sorry mislead me lol

 

[limr31]

There is no overgeneralizing here. Its the truth, and if you don't think so, thats your opinion and thats why you live in 'Merica. Your free to think however you like.

Prove it. Quote the scientific research. Or are you only going by your own personal experiences and opinions?