I understand the feeling, but the simple fact is that many photographers include limitations on distribution in their contracts. Whether or not that was the case here, we do not know until the OP responds. Regardless, it is unlikely the copyright was transferred and the fact that she paid for the images is likely irrelevant.
I'm sorry that some of you find this annoying, and I appreciate that it makes the thread somewhat pointless, HOWEVER, how would you feel if your images were used in a way that you had not authorized, irrespective of the quality of the work (which was very bad indeed).
My wedding clients can share my photos all they want (facebook, google +, forum, etc.). As long as the photo is not commercially used and it is non editorial (if it is for editorial, I want to be aware of it and I should handle it), I will be fine. The OP is not making any money posting the photos here. It is part of running business, some clients are happy some are not. Luckily I do not have a client that is very unhappy with my work and post the photos publicly. If that does happen to me, I will just have to shoot better and make sure that does not happen to me again.