Weird, I thought this was supposed to be a helpful forum.
Yeah your right, I just don't know photography terms, and here you all put it in dummy terms.It is, and I am not trying to be mean, but there are several websites with lots of informaton on fill flash, how and when to use it and the best flashes to use.
By reading those sites, you will get new ideas and be exposed to different styles, so my sugestion is to help you improve your photography.