The problem I have is this. I take bunch of photos in several weeks. Upload them (takes a while) and leave the computer and forget about it. Then wife complains that she doesnt have the pictures (cant see the jpegs). LOL.
It sounds like shooting RAW+JPG is your solution to giving your wife quick access to your images before you process them, correct? What does your wife do with these images? Does she email them to friends and family, post them to Facebook, etc? If you're shooting JPG in Fine / Large on your camera, then aren't your JPG's several MB's, making them too large to efficiently share without post processing them anyway?
How about this..
Create a Lightroom export preset for say 800x600 and a quality of 50 so your JPG's are just a couple hundred KB. Create a folder on your hard drive called "wifes pics" or whatever and point your export preset at this folder. Then do this..
1. Shoot RAW only.
2. Import directly into Lightroom.
3. Once imported, press CTRL+A then press CTRL+SHIFT+E, select your export preset, hit OK, and leave the computer and forget about it.
You win because you're taking up less card storage on your camera while shooting, less storage on your computer because your JPG's are smaller, you can still post-process your RAW's at your leisure without your wife nagging you

, and you've added less than a minute of effort to your workflow. And your wife wins because she has immediate access to the photos in her own dedicated folder that she can do whatever she wants with without impacting your original RAW's, and her images are easier for her to manage and share because they're smaller than the JPG's straight out of the camera would have been.