I've always loved getting out with my camera, long before I ever thought of doing anything particular with photography. If you don't really love it maybe it's not for you.
I also can drive myself nuts being picky over photos; I have to make myself put it down and leave it alone! then usually the next day I take one look and see what needs to be corrected/adjusted or which looks best, etc.
Seems like 'everyone' if it's online, like 'everything' that crosses their screen! lol or only like what's a novelty or whatever - popular isn't necessarily quality. So try getting some feedback from people whose opinions you value.
edit - OK, well, social media... what gets posted can be more of a passing fancy, a novelty to people who see it - even before the internet we've had lots of 'fads' that don't last all that long, people like something for awhile then are over it. Not probably the best way to get appropriate, effective feedback.