This Stuff is Mostly Personal Preference
The frequency with which sameness is encouraged is scary, and damaging to photography, in my opinion. Fortunately, my work sucked initially, so I didn't have to worry about this. I still don't, for the most part.
To the veteran members: I would encourage you to offer your input as "the book would say to do it this way" instead of saying "you did it wrong". Stop promoting sameness, and in many ways, mediocrity. As it becomes easier and easier to create properly exposed photos, vision matters more and more. Let people develop theirs without shooting them down from the get-go.
There are two issues here.
People at all levels of experience give c/c and those who are just learning how to do photography latch on, as Amolitar said, to the last thing they learned and use that as a hammer on any nail, appropriate or not.
I think that most of what I see 'veterans' say and remark about myself is not driving people towards sameness but suggesting that people know how to do what they want technically correctly before they try to become 'artists.'
You find very few fine woodworkers using their screwdrivers as chisels because they know their tools.
I think it's the same thing in photography.
Once the photographer has the tools - and that include a sense of composition - then he or she can do whatever he wishes, however he/she wishes.
To be honest there are painfully few photographers here who are posting creatively; moist are striving to just get the basics down.
On the 'veterans' posting: I am older so that makes me a veteran but I don't post much because I don't need what I would get here. My pictures are what I want them to be. When I do post, it's to 'pay my dues.'
On being unfairly criticized
I agree. I always get crapped on for my photos not being by the technical correctness, because i have more of an artsy style. Well frankly it makes me not want to share my work on here. And i left another forum because of how much they hated my photos.
Your pictures, not you, get what you asked for - critique. When people point out what they see as technical and artistic failure, you defend that as being your style or because the light is some special way in Alaska or something else.
Well i like it despite of the lighting. I cant control where lighting is coming from if im taking a picture from a top looking down, it was in the shade as well.
The_Traveler said:
You can control the exposure.
That doesn't have anything to do with half of his face being lighter than the other half. Its because he was looking up and there is no way to back light someones face when they are looking up at the sky and the sun is comming from the south...
Its over exposed on purpose because that is how i like it. I dont use fill flash because i want my subjects back lit and over exposed with natural light. This picture just happened to be one of those case where the light had to be comming from the side. However i still made sure it was shaded so as not to have a major difference in lighting.
I think that teh OP, if he feels things are being done incorrectly, should do his best to set an example for the rest of us.