@Gary A. and
@gryphonslair99 This is a second marriage for both of us. Her first husband passed away from cancer at a young age, and unfortunately my ex hasn't yet. We found each other by accident or fate, and 38 years later we're still going strong. Most of our friends say the secret to our longevity is that neither one of us will leave because we each have to have the last word.
For 25 years we worked together, her office on one end of the building and mine on the other. She thought she had me over a barrel at work, claiming if I made her mad, she'd quit, go home, pack her stuff, and leave. Never will forget the day the Lions Club came by selling brooms, she bought one. Shortly thereafter we had a "business disagreement", and she headed out the door new broom under her arm. God help me, I couldn't resist I asked her loud enough for most of the office to hear, if she was planning to clean house or fly somewhere. After that for several months she kept an open box in our bedroom, she would add to or take stuff out of it depending how mad I'd made her that day,

but she couldn't stay away from the office any longer than I could.
Now that we've been retired for several years we still argue, but both our memories are so bad, that by the next day, it's all forgotten. We can have the same argument several times in the same week now
Since she was diagnosed in 2009 with Multiple Myeloma, I get worried when she isn't arguing with me. Wouldn't trade her for anything in the world.