GREAT video! I'll probably make several people watch this.
A few comments...
So... there is "technically" a number 4. Don't forget that in addition to changing the settings on your camera you may ALSO be able to change the amount of light on your subject. So #4 (using lighting to change the exposure) is a slightly more advanced topic, but it is a consideration that people sometimes forget. If I get the "my camera isn't very good at shooting photos in this dim light" my reply is usually "then why not take the photo where there is more light?" I grew up shooting film. We didn't have 6400 ASA film.
Just about every book on exposure ignores lighting -- I'm guessing this is why so many people panic when they have to use a flash. It's like black magic -- something only few can control and everyone else should fear it. I always try to remind people... there is "one more thing" you can use when you've exhausted the limits of the exposure triangle.
I'm not sure I'd try to add a section on lighting to your video... I'd probably just mention that taking a photo where there is more light is also an option. You could easily take one of your arrays of light dots (photons) and create a checkerboard pattern to show a room with "half the light" and it's impact on the exposure.
You might also want to expand your explanation of f-stops a little. f-stop numbers are the most confusing to people because the numbers seem arbitrary when you don't know what they mean. Shutter speeds and ISO sensitivity doubling and halving makes sense to people because the numbers really do double and halve. When people understand that f-stop numbers aren't actually arbitrary then it makes a lot more sense.
I usually have to explain that the "f" in "f-stop" stands for "focal ratio". And it's the ratio of the focal length of the lens divided by the diameter of clear aperture. So a 50mm lens with a clear aperture set to 25mm wide is using f/2. A 100mm lens with a clear aperture approximately 9mm in diameter would be f/11 (and we'd have to round that off because 11 x 9 is only 99... not 100 -- but hey, that's close enough (and technically the camera companies DO round off.)
As for the halving and double aspect of f-stops... they're "powers" of the square-root of 2. The square root of two (rounded off to just 1 decimal place) is 1.4. So f/1 is actually the square root of 2 raised to the 0 power (anything raised to the 0 power is always 1.) f/1.4 is the square root of 2 raised to the 1st power (or simply the square root of 2... itself.) f/2 is the square root of 2 raised to the 2nd power. And if you keep playing this out the progression is 1, 1.4, 2, 2.8, 4, 5.6, 8, 11, 16, 22, and 32. The other thing to notice is that every other value is doubled (1, 2, 4, 8, 16, & 32 and the values between are 1.4, 2.8, 5.6, 11 (which is just a round off of 5.6 doubled), and 22. This whole square root of 2 thing is due to the "inverse square law" (and if someone wants to read more about it or even visualize it there are lots of good articles.) The SAME "inverse square" law turns out to be very handy when you're dealing with lights and their distance from the subject... but that's more advanced.
The other analogy I often use is that comparing a lens to a long tunnel. For a lot of people it doesn't make sense that merely making a lens "longer" should reduce the amount of light that arrives on the far end of it. But most people would intuitively expect it to get darker the farther they go into a long tunnel. If I'm standing 10' inside the entrance of a tunnel which is 10' in diameter, there's a lot of light around me. But if I'm 100' inside a tunnel which is only 10' in diameter, it's pretty dark. If, however, I bored out the tunnel to make it 100' in diameter, then it would be just as bright at 100' inside a 100' diameter tunnel as it is when you're just 10' inside a 10' diameter tunnel. If the "ratio" of length to diameter is the same, then the amount of light is the same.
Thanks for posting that! You did a superb job at simplifying the three on-camera exposure controls into a way that I think most people can probably understand.