A day at work can get you pretty behind on the post but I'll just say some random comments on lots of what I've read.
First: I went from shooting a Kodak DX6490 to the D70. It had a 10x zoom which was a 35mm equiv to 38-380mm. When we got the D70, I was a little concerned about not having that zoom range without a large zoom. Some time later, we bought a 70-300mm zoom for the D70 and I've used it quite a bit for some parades or speeches or things that I can't really get close to, macro shots because 300mm macros rock, a few landscape shots and some during weddings because of the same distance issue. Other than that, my 50mm stays on the camera pretty much the rest of the time. I use it the absolute most of any lens in my bag.
You can pick up a 50mm 1.8 for around $100 or you can do like we did and find a film Nikon for sale on
eBay that comes with a 50mm. I got our N70 with the 50 for about the same cost of a new 50 and now have a backup film body. Just make sure in the description that it's autofocus.
Lastly, I would get the D70s kit and the memory card first and wait for it to come in before you start shopping for the other lenses. Then you can take your camera to Joe's camera shop and see how much you like the lenses you're interested in. Just shoot with them in the store and go home, download them, etc... That way you will know what type of product you're getting before you buy it. When it's all said and done, you could actually
just make the two hour drive up to the B&H superstore in NY and try everything out on the spot. I bet they'd even let you download them on one of their laptops or PCs and even print some pictures out.
Then again...I have been known to be a little loopy from time to time.