Don't forget us shotguners, the 12 ga. is the diameter of a lead ball that requires 12 balls to make a pound. (about .720 in.) A 20 ga. is the diameter of a lead ball that requires 20 balls to make a pound. (about .620 in.)
I blame that on the Brits.
Then there is the lowly .410 ga. It actually measures .410 in. or so.
The nice thing about the f stop is it is inversely proportional to the speed. Or in plain English, the aperture diameter gets bigger (more light), the shutter speed gets faster. (less light).