The wireless flash system built into your camera uses an infrared light trigger signal that is sent by the camera flash. So, your camera flash has to fire.
I don't know about Sony, but Nikon makes an accessory unit (SU-800) that mounts on the camera hot shoe and only emits infrared light. People cannot see infrared light.
An alternative is to use radio triggers. a transmitter mounts on the camera hot shoe and a receiver is attached to the off camera speedlight.
Unfortunately, Sony has chosen to use a non-standard hot shoe electrical contact layout and you may encounter difficulty finding suitable 3rd party accessories.