Thank you so much!! I have gotten a lot of good info coming here but I still want to maintain my own style.... you know? I don't want to do things the "technical" way. I know there is sooooo much I still need to learn and work on but some things are better when they are different.
This is an excuse I've seen time after time after time after time on this forum. Not wanting to do things the technical way because you want your own style.
Newsflash: You first have to master the technical side of photography before you can even THINK about developing a style. I totally agree that it's boring to be another cookie-cutter-all my photos look the same photographer. But that is NO excuse for poor composition, terrible lighting, improper DOF settings, etc.
I've been where you are. You just need to take a step back, and take time (months, maybe even years) to learn the technical side of photography. You say you don't want to be the "typical photographer" yet it's exactly what you are right now. Your photos are poorly lit, poorly composed, and have too thin a DOF. Just like EVERY other so called "facebook photographer" out there. If you want to stand out from the crowd, you need to be exceptional at the technical side of photography, and from that base, build your own personal style/brand.
The house build on the sand will soon collapse, but the house built on the rock will withstand the storm. Your photography, without technical knowledge, is the house on the sand. You need to build that rock foundation of fundamental technical skills before you can start putting an addition of style on your metaphorical house.
Edit: Yeah there's some tough love in here. I know. You can hate me for it. Really, go ahead. It won't bother me.