bribrius
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Honestly. I had a similar conversation with a photographer/videographer i know last year. He had two modes. "poor me" or "i need another drink". He showed up on my door step a few times. Looking for someone to feed into it. And i told him the same damn thing i am saying in this thread. Course, he didn't listen. A year later his wife divorced him. Dropped a restrainer on him. The state stepped in because of his potential "mental health issues" wondering if he is a danger to the children. Now he is restricted to supervised visitation. why? he thought it was all about him. And when push came to shove everyone else got involved in protecting the wife and kids from HIM. So if he went on some drunken binge pity party and decided to eat a bullet at least he would only be taking himself out.sounds like you were raised like me. It isn't that they are for weak or women, it is that it isn't about you. It is about your responsibilities and obligations. All emotional and frigged in the head you aren't beneficial to anyone. Ever hear the term "build your house on solid rock". Well NEWS FLASH. Soon as you reproduced you became that solid rock. And if you can't hold it together who else is going to be that rock? The wife or the baby? Go chop some wood. Life goes on. Get over it.
Yeah I have a very, very hard time with empathy. Sympathy sure, but empathy is a tough nut to crack.
I told him to get over it. He didn't listen.