2 photos for C&C Please. Taken Thanksgiving 2011

[naptime]

btw: this is an internet forum. don't be a baby when someone critiques your work.

take the advice and get better.

it's the internet. so what if someone says something you dont like.

 

[photo guy]

I don't mind C&C at all as long as it is politely stated. I put up with enough **** from people being rude when I do my work that I would appreciate it if I don't have to put up with it here too. Is that too much to ask? I don't think so. It think is easier to learn by being polite than by being an ******* about it.

 

[MTVision]

Thank You naptime. This is also why I am always more guarded and feel as some of the things said are or were out of line on the other thread. I get encouraged to post my work so people can see it and comment so I can learn but end up getting rather rude or bashing comments or remarks and as some people don't really read on some of the things I write or post. The minute I let my guard down things can happen quick and sometimes might not come out too good. I hope this helps let people know why I react to some things like I do on here.

Naptime is right. You gotta let up on the rude/attacking/bashing rant. That's what the whole issue is. You may think somebody is being a jerk but for all you know they are joking or just being nice. Remember you thought I was rude and mean at one point when I wasn't. It's easy to read into things or read them the wrong way on the Internet. If you feel like somebody is being a jerk just ignore it. Seriously ignore it. If you ignored it your threads wouldn't get locked or be filled with 50 pages of drama. Not everyone is going to like you or your work and you aren't going to like everybody. It's just a way of life. Stop leaving blanket statements saying everyone is bashing you when they aren't. I've seen people get bashed on here and this isn't it. You've annoyed a few people so of course they are going to leave smartass remarks. Be the bigger person and just ignore it.

I've had people tell me my work basically sucked and I didn't really care because they are right. If somebody, on the Internet, insults me as a person - who gives a flying f*** - they don't know me. You gotta let it all go.

 

[photo guy]

I have some photos that I was thinking about posting for a comparrison C&C but am going to hold off to see what happens on this forum first as it is starting to look like the last.

 

[photo guy]

I am willing to call a truce if we can all get along. Is it possible? I would certainly like to move on and start learning again without all of the other stuff that has been going on. Please let me know if you agree to this. Thanks

 

[Bitter Jeweler]

What she said!

See, I hate Derrel, and Derrel hates me, but this forum isn't the same without him. We ***** at each other when needed, but at th end of the day, its all cool.

See, you, photo_guy, keep trying to get the forum to cater to your wants, needs, and demands, and it ain't gonna happen.
You need to fit in here, and not make us fit you.

I'm a clown. I always will be. You need to accept that for what it is.

Megan is super nice, but if you push her buttons, she'll get frustrated and unload. I've seen it! It's ugly!

 

[Destin]

I am willing to call a truce if we can all get along. Is it possible? I would certainly like to move on and start learning again without all of the other stuff that has been going on. Please let me know if you agree to this. Thanks

Who are you talking to? There are way to many people on here to expect everyone to see this. Post a thread that's says this so everyone can see it and it might actually mean something haha

 

[Bitter Jeweler]

Pffft. Ultimatums.


:meh:

 

[cgipson1]

I have some photos that I was thinking about posting for a comparrison C&C but am going to hold off to see what happens on this forum first as it is starting to look like the last.

Photo Guy.. I am not trying to be rude.. but ignore me if you want to! You say "see what happens on this forum first as it is starting to look like the last"? So this same thing has happened on other forums? Not just this one?

(Again.. not trying to be rude).. is it possible that something in your behavior is sparking this type of treatment? Why do you think it is happening? Really.. trying to help here!

 

[photo guy]

Again, I am willing to call a truce and start fresh to move on and learn again without all of the drama. If you agree, please let me know. Thanks

 

[naptime]

see.. this... is exactly what we are talking about.


it's YOUR loss if you don't want to learn.


you just gave a demand ... you are willing to learn, if everyone is willing to be nice to you. ?? really... did i just read that??

you either want to learn or you dont.

if you don't. then don't.

if you do, then post your pictures, ask for c&c, and listen to what people have to say. it's that simple.


think about how that sounds....

imagine this.....

my daughter goes to school and tells her science teacher.... i am willing to learn, but ONLY if you be super duper nice to me. if you don't then i'm going to fail your class to teach you a lesson. so there.

umm, do you think it's any skin off the teachers back? it's HER loss if she fails, not his.

 

[naptime]

a better ultimatum would be...

i'm willing to learn, if you all are willing to teach me and forgive me for being a crybaby.


if that doesn't sound like something you can imagine yourself saying... well, then you are probably in the wrong place.

 

[cgipson1]

Again, I am willing to call a truce and start fresh to move on and learn again without all of the drama. If you agree, please let me know. Thanks

Apparently I am still "IGNORED".. lol! So even if I do AGREE.... it won't do any good!

I would still like to know why YOU think this happens.. and on Multiple Forums, not just this one!

 

[Bitter Jeweler]

Again, I am willing to call a truce and start fresh to move on and learn again without all of the drama. If you agree, please let me know. Thanks

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[naptime]

i want to call a truce and be friends.

do you want to be friends.

[yes] or [no]

check one.