gryphonslair99 said:
I am curious. In you 10 years in the Corps, did they have to shoot you with an M16 to give you the idea that a .223 can, when properly placed, kill you.
That is a might extreme, and a bit of a stretch for an analogy.
honestly folks, if you don't feel up to the "challenge" or simply don't wish to have anything to do with it, you don't need to be personaly offended. You do not need to defend yourselves from me.
But, for me, I'm not jaded about sex, I am not a eunich. When a woman takes off her clothes, I respond physically like any heterosexual man would and should. but, the professional doesn't act on that response...that is the difference.
I feel the need to do this, not so much so I "will now what it is like" because you're right, one experience is not enough, but you know what? It will give me a frame of referrence. A pause for thought if you will. I think this experience will make me a more considerate photographer....no...I know it will.
If you don't want to take nudes of yourself fine, I really could care less. I posted this here on the net as one way to keep myself from backing out. It is out there, and folks are expecting me to follow through with photos (they are coming, I promise, I'm sorting and editing now).
But I think that what you should do is go take self portraits of any kind. I've done this before with very little thought, but now I am finding that I am much more critical of the photos. I do not know why, but I am.
This afternoon, I sat down with a model that I had shot last week to go over the contact sheets of the film that I had developed. There were a few shots that she didn't want printed. My kneejerk reaction was to defend those shots and insist on using them. But this experience gave me a bit of insight, I don't understand her reason doesn't want that shot printed, but I can sympathize with the reasoning. I still defended the shot, and told her why I thought it was important to the set, but I was a bit softer in my delivery, and took her concerns into consideration.
This sort of thing will make me a better photographer....might not work for you, and might not be your cup of tea, but I don't see any reason for anyone to poo poo what I take pics of.