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AniTakesPhotos

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Awhile back I booked my first shoot with a professional photographer. I had recently lost 60 lbs and wanted some nice photos for once. A model buddy of mine recommended her friend who had a nice portfolio, so I was pretty excited. It was easily the worst service I've ever received. I actually left the shoot feeling self conscious.

From the beginning he refused to give me eye contact and ignored every question I asked. I know, immediate red flag right? But I didn't want to be rude to a friend of a friend and had l already paid up front for a discount. He would just take off in a random direction without alerting me and gave vague instructions on how and where to pose. When I got it wrong he'd give a loud, long sigh and just start walking again.

After not that many shots he started walking for a very long time. Eventually, we ended up in the parking lot where he literally just got in his car and drove off without saying a word. It took a second to take in what happened, but it was too late. He was gone. I told my friend what happened and she was shocked. She offered to pay me back but I refused since it wasn't her fault. Eventually, it came out that anyone who wasn't an attractive young female got blown off the same way.

Three months later after multiple attempts to contact him I got nothing. I got a free consultation from a lawyer to see what I could do (LegalZoom.com is incredible) and he told me that I could take him to small claims and get my money back plus enough to cover court fees and what not, but that it was a lot of work for little reward. In the interest of not living my life out of spite I decided to let it go.

Well, I just found out that not long after my shoot his house was robbed and all of his photography equipment was stolen along with all of the work he's done since he started, including wedding work he'd yet to deliver. Several of his clients sued him for money he already spent, so his mom had to pay for all of the damages and kicked him out. Apparently, he wasn't insured either and can't replace his gear, so now he works the night shift unloading boxes at a Walmart. Sweet, sweet justice...

If there's one good thing that came out of this though it's that I had such a terrible experience I opted to buy my first camera (a Panasonic LX7) instead of hiring someone else. Turns out the photography community is actually pretty awesome and that this is an incredible hobby to enjoy. :mrgreen:
 
The tip-off should have been that a pro photographer doesn't live with his mom.
Hopefully he didn't lead with that information upon first corresponding. But given the rest of the story, who knows.
 
And another hobbyist earning a bit of pocket money learns some hard lessons it seems. Shame he had to go through theft to learn it. Glad that you've found a positive light from the cloud and welcome to the mad world of photography :)


The tip-off should have been that a pro photographer doesn't live with his mom.

Also "paid up front for a discount" :grumpy:

A lot of photographers want partial or full pay up front - it helps avoid people who just attend the free shoot and then never order any prints plus if you pay before the shoot it helps ensure you actually turn up to the shoot in the first place. Discounts for up-front pay is likely a fairly common method to encourage people to pay more up-front without forcing them to (which softens the blow).


ps - his mother just paid the bill, it doesn't mention that he lives with his parents.
 
Yeah, in hindsight there were a lot of red flags. But as a guy who grew up 100 lbs overweight and rarely had his picture taken I really didn't know what to expect. I saw a professional looking website and got a good referral, so I just went with it. Emails were pleasant. I offered to pay through Paypal once he sent me the pictures but got offered a 10% cash discount. In my area that's not unusual. Both my boxing coach and guitar teacher do this, so I didn't think anything of it at the time.
 
And another hobbyist earning a bit of pocket money learns some hard lessons it seems.

There's nothing included to suggest the photographer was a hobbyist...

ps - his mother just paid the bill, it doesn't mention that he lives with his parents.

It does, however, state that his mother paid the bill and kicked him out...
 
And another hobbyist earning a bit of pocket money learns some hard lessons it seems.

There's nothing included to suggest the photographer was a hobbyist...

ps - his mother just paid the bill, it doesn't mention that he lives with his parents.

It does, however, state that his mother paid the bill and kicked him out...


Oh I missed the kicked him out part!

*refrains from further comment on hobbyist VS pro based on behaviour and stuff of the pro in this situation*
 
And another hobbyist earning a bit of pocket money learns some hard lessons it seems.

There's nothing included to suggest the photographer was a hobbyist...

ps - his mother just paid the bill, it doesn't mention that he lives with his parents.

It does, however, state that his mother paid the bill and kicked him out...


Oh I missed the kicked him out part!

*refrains from further comment on hobbyist VS pro based on behaviour and stuff of the pro in this situation*

Hey, I know plenty of so-called "pros" who wouldn't think twice about acting in such a manner...
 
Maybe he's just a really hardcore artist, and his mom's house happens to have the best natural light in town!!!
 
Given the items that were stolen, I'm going to speculate that it was one of the other dis-satisfied customers. lol. Good story.Thanks.
 
You know, if the guy had his gear stolen because he was stupid and left it in his car, I'd get a good chuckle. While I was a working musician, our mantra was always "Unload the truck every night". I know a bass player who, on two occasions, didn't do that.

He had all of his equipment stolen.

Twice.

But taking joy in the fact that the guy's house was broken into? I think that's a bit dickish, to be honest with you...
 

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