DepthOfFocus
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Hi Guys! Me again ...
In January 2014 , I was a approached by a (distant) friend wondering if I'd be available to do her sister's wedding photos. I hold her that I am available that date, but before I gave a quote, I asked her for more details about the wedding.
My friend (again, not the bride) finally got back to me in May 2014 with the details (timing/location) of the wedding. I gave her a quote with everything that's included. She responded with 2 words, "Okay, perfect" but never followed up with anything else. To me, I interpreted that as ... "Okay, thanks for the info, I'll review it with her, and get back to you if/when we're interested".
In the meantime, I've chosen not to take on any more weddings for 2014. Mainly due to personal reasons (having a huge love/hate relationship with wedding photography) but more importantly, I play in a band on the side and need to keep my weekends open for the many gigs that come our way.
Because of this, I didn't bother following up with anyone that I left a quote with.
Anyways, she messaged me last week (July 13) asking if there's a contract to sign, or a deposit to leave. I politely let her know that I wasn't clear if this was a confirmed booking or not, and a lot has changed over the past few months, and that I'm no longer taking on any weddings this year. I was extremely apologetic if there was any misunderstanding.
(Just to be clear, all communication was with my friend, I have never corresponded with the bride).
Apparently my friend (not the bride) is fuming over this ... !!!!!!!!!!!!
Was I in the wrong at all ? Or should she have been more clear in May 2014 about their intentions to hire me?
Regardless this is a learning experience: (A) Always Always follow up with clients and (B) anything that involves friends, LEAVE them out and refer them to someone else).
In January 2014 , I was a approached by a (distant) friend wondering if I'd be available to do her sister's wedding photos. I hold her that I am available that date, but before I gave a quote, I asked her for more details about the wedding.
My friend (again, not the bride) finally got back to me in May 2014 with the details (timing/location) of the wedding. I gave her a quote with everything that's included. She responded with 2 words, "Okay, perfect" but never followed up with anything else. To me, I interpreted that as ... "Okay, thanks for the info, I'll review it with her, and get back to you if/when we're interested".
In the meantime, I've chosen not to take on any more weddings for 2014. Mainly due to personal reasons (having a huge love/hate relationship with wedding photography) but more importantly, I play in a band on the side and need to keep my weekends open for the many gigs that come our way.
Because of this, I didn't bother following up with anyone that I left a quote with.
Anyways, she messaged me last week (July 13) asking if there's a contract to sign, or a deposit to leave. I politely let her know that I wasn't clear if this was a confirmed booking or not, and a lot has changed over the past few months, and that I'm no longer taking on any weddings this year. I was extremely apologetic if there was any misunderstanding.
(Just to be clear, all communication was with my friend, I have never corresponded with the bride).
Apparently my friend (not the bride) is fuming over this ... !!!!!!!!!!!!
Was I in the wrong at all ? Or should she have been more clear in May 2014 about their intentions to hire me?
Regardless this is a learning experience: (A) Always Always follow up with clients and (B) anything that involves friends, LEAVE them out and refer them to someone else).