What is the 'wrong math'? You do realize that the logic behind the Paradox is resolution-independent, don't you?
Do you realize that without resolution you don't have pixels which brightness you need to compare in order to deduce whether their brightness is the same or not across the sensor surface area receiving the light? How do you expect to deduce whether the brightness is uniform or not if you sum all the intensity into only one variable? Of course it will be uniform when your result can only hold one value. You need an array, a matrix, that can hold multiple values related to spatial distribution of received light.
That is not what 'resolution-independent' means. In this case it means that Olbers' Paradox predicts a uniformly bright sky no matter what resolution it is viewed at. Given the assumptions of an infinite number of stars and infinite age, you can conclude that the sky will be uniformly bright without using a resolution-based model. We are having to use one because the greatest flaw in your theory concerns the addition of "grey dots" - stars whose image size has fallen below the resolution of the observing system. If the observing system had infinite resolving power, there would be no grey dots. Therefore we have to discuss resolution.
I hope that you appreciate the time and effort that people are putting into this to present a well-reasoned argument to you.
No matter what the finite resolution of the observing system is, there will be an infinite number of stars in the field of view of every skyward-looking receptor (1). Not all these stars will be visible to the receptor because of obstruction, but the entire field of view of each such receptor will be filled with stars, seamlessly (2).
The further away a star is, the lower its luminous flux will be (3) (assuming constant luminous intensity - ie obeying the "inverse square law") but the smaller its ideal image area will be (4). These two cancel each other out to maintain constant ideal image illuminance (5). This is an extension of the candle brighness discussion. The star appears as a point source because of the receptor system resolution (but see 12 later) and only because of the receptor resolution (6). It is not a point source in reality (7), so it can be considered as a source of finite area (8).
(Note that it is the stars' finite image size that limits the brighness of the sky in this discussion. If it were a true point source the sky would be infinitely bright (9).)
Now, because the surface of the receptor is seamlessly filled with star images all having the same image illuminance as a nearby star (see 5) the overall image illuminance is the same as a nearby star (10). Therefore the sky is uniformly bright; the image of it has uniform illuminance (11).
It does not actually matter that the image on the receptor is smeared by optical aberrations and diffraction because ideal theory predicts uniform illuminance, so any consistent smearing of the ideal image also results in uniform illuminance (12). It is the energy flow that is important.