Ashley, First, you're on a photo forum with many professional photographers. If you made mention of your business, it's open game to receive a response about it. No one bullied you. ALL topics are going to go off subject no matter who posts them. It's kinda what we do here.
Tirediron gave a solid answer to your question. Gotta have thick skin in here and extract the info you need from the answers. All us blow hards are opinionated. lol. You'll like this place. Give it a chance.
Look, I gave a response and totally avoided the original topic. How'd I do guys?