@runswithscissor - can you post his website? or are you really the "Bondage" photographer in question?
Ya see... now why do you have to do that?
I was nearly ready to stand over by you... maybe offer some support... but you go and do that.
Like Hertz says: It's a job. I have done just two boudoir sessions in all my years, and I gotta tell ya, it was a lot of work. Not at all sensual.
Here's the other part of "It's a job." .... I don't take just any job that walks in my door. Sure... nearly all, but not every single one. The last time I told someone that "I'm not the guy for your job" was a mother wanting fashion/glamour photos of her 6-year-old. I just won't do this sort of work. My personal feelings are this verges on exploitation, if not completely crossing the line. I hope this says something about me. I know some might feel I'm wrong, but I'm fine with that and don't believe they're perverts.
So I do feel a bit like you do. If someone has carved out a niche in the world of bondage, I think his/her values are out of whack. I don't know about what their personal life is like. I just think they're taking advantage of a sad situation and wouldn't do it myself.
So, when I saw that you were first to respond to this thread and asked "are you the photographer in question?," I thought... well that's a bit queer. Now twice more in the same thread you've made innuendo... once again at the OP and once toward ferny.
This is not an effective way to argue a point. It just make you seem desperate.
Why so much passion about this? Did this happen to someone you care about?
-Pete