rexbobcat
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It's not a "strategy", it's a personal satisfaction mentality. If you seek enlightenment, seek it within yourself, not others.And that is a fine strategy which works well for you. Good on ya!
I understand what you're saying. Yes, technically, the bitter taste that one feels toward an activity is their own responsibility.
It's part of the "You can't always control what happens but you can control your attitude toward it" mentality.
However, and I know this is probably an unpopular opinion, but the whole "look within yourself for happiness" line is so trite. It's true to an extent, but at this point it's just a dismissive cliche. It's a statement that elevates the speaker while not even attempting to empathize with the recipient.
The human ego does not exist in a vacuum. I've researched and studied enough psychology to know that a person can't simply will themselves into contentment while disregarding their social and psychological predispositions.
At least that's the way I see it. Your statements might be true, but man you sure stated them in the most dickish way possible.
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