Trust me folks, the gear has a little thing to do with it. I just have more clear understanding with how to use the sun and the background to my advantage plus sometimes adding off camera flash to the mix. All of this conversation makes me really itch wanting to try shooting my kids with a rebel and 55-200 or 55-300 lens. I dont think it matters that much. I will try to borrow a rebel and kit lens very soon and do this experiment.
Idk, I disagree. Of course gear matters or you would be shooting with your rebel and 50 1.8! I agree though much of it is learning to use your locations.
ETA: Obviously the difference between these two shoots is experience and knowledge, not arguing that. But I do think gear matters once you get to a certain level of skill.