Rampage said:
I will definitely shoot flash in manual from here on out
Yes, shooting flash photos in totally, fully MANUAL modes it is simply the easiest way to get predictable results, and to be able to shoot a photo with a digital camera, and to then LOOK at the photo and the in-camera histogram, and to then be able to make a change in the exposure or the flash, in order to get the desired exposure.
The thing is--a flash shot may be (not always, but may be) a picture that is affected by the flash exposure AND also may be affected by daylight or ambient light exposure--all in the same frame! A slow shutter speed of say 1/15 second at f/11 with the sun going down over the ocean might make a beautiful Flash + slow-speed Ambient light picture; a shot done indoors in front of a black velvet background 10 feet behind the subject might look almost the same with the shutter at 1/15 second as it does with the shutter at 1/200 second--with a pure, detail-free, black background.
Elevating, or lowering, the camera's ISO setting, that can make say a half-power manual flash burst be either very powerful (ISO at 3,200) or fairly weak (ISO set to 100) with the lens set to f/11.
Flash photographs are affected by the ISO level, the size of the lens aperture, the power the flash is set to, the angle of spread the flash unit's light beam is set to, by flash exposure compensation that has been set by the photographer, the distance of the flash to the subject, and in some cases, the length of time the shutter is open also has an effect on a flash photograph; there are many,many different specific flash models, and ways to regulate their power output or to modify their beam-spread (zoomed, set to normal, set to wide, wide+ the 14mm diffusing panel, bounced off a surface, etc).
Because there are so many variable that determine the way a flash photograph turns out, the easiest way to get the exact, right, desired look is to take control of everything: ISO, f/stop, shutter speed, and to then use various ways of making the flash deliver just the right amount of light. As to delivering the right amount of light--that too has multiple ways of control: there is manually-selected power output levels (like Full, Half, Quarter-power, alllllllll the way down to 1/64 or 1/128 power levels); Auto-Thyristor control where you set an f/stop and the flash delivers the "right" amount of power for that f/stop value; as well as TTL, and even Balanced TTL mode.
It's an odd thing, but going to Manual camera setting mode, and manually picking ISO, shutter speed, lens f/stop, and a manual power level like say 1/2 power or 1/4 power, can actually end up being verrrrrrrrrrrry simple, and verrrrrry easy to make a tiny change or two and BOOM! You have exactly the look you want.