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Forget this woman. Accept the fact that you blew it. Own it.

I took a client out to dinner once, and my company card was declined. My client said "I got this" and I said "Like Hell you do" and paid for it with my personal card.

The point is to ALWAYS have a backup.

ALWAYS.

If there's a chance your credit or debit card will be declined, have cash. Always have cash. Not having cash when you need it most will send a message you don't want her to receive.

With regards to this one, well, it's done. It's over. Chasing her will be a waste of time. Welcome to Suckerville, population you.

There are plenty of quality women out there. Go find one...
 
Forget this woman. Accept the fact that you blew it. Own it.

I took a client out to dinner once, and my company card was declined. My client said "I got this" and I said "Like Hell you do" and paid for it with my personal card.

The point is to ALWAYS have a backup.

ALWAYS.

If there's a chance your credit or debit card will be declined, have cash. Always have cash. Not having cash when you need it most will send a message you don't want her to receive.

With regards to this one, well, it's done. It's over. Chasing her will be a waste of time. Welcome to Suckerville, population you.

There are plenty of quality women out there. Go find one...

You couldn't find better advice!

I have had my cards declined more times than I can count, some SOB stole our C/C number and every time I used my card new places, the credit card company would shut it down. Even though they had issued us new cards. I finally canceled that card company but not before developing a habit of tucking a C-note in the back of my wallet just in case we where out eating or buying something and the card was declined.
 
I'm stuck crying myself to sleep. I'm falling to pieces here, folks. I don't have motivation to eat, to do school work.
I'm tired of the pity party. You need somebody to kick you in the ass and tell you to quit feeling sorry for yourself. Well let me do the honors. Dude, get over it! Move on. Start being a positive, confident person. Start liking yourself. Too bad she lost out on a good guy.
 
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when im depressed I post cats online.
 
Gah. I hate how first impressions can be such a big deal. I just want another chance.
 
Gah. I hate how first impressions can be such a big deal. I just want another chance.

I'm writing this large so you may actually read this.
You can't unring a bell.

Grow the hell up, stop whining about something you can't change and get on with it.
Not only did you screw up with her, you are rapidly moving from pitiable to annoying here.

 
Gah. I hate how first impressions can be such a big deal. I just want another chance.

I'm writing this large so you may actually read this.
You can't unring a bell.

Grow the hell up, stop whining about something you can't change and get on with it.
Not only did you screw up with her, you are rapidly moving from pitiable to annoying here.



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It happens, man. Like everyone else has said...she's trying to tell you she's not interested. And unfortunately, it may not have been what happened (driving, paying for dinner...etc). It may have been that your chemistry just didn't work for her and that's that. The other stuff may just be the icing on the cake, and the only excuse you can think of that she's not interested. It's a cruel world (until you find someone else) and something you just deal with. The more you text/call/e-mail will just make her tell her friends how "creepy/annoying" of a guy you are. Save face and move on. Everyone here may seem harsh, but they've all been through it many, many, many times. And, they've always gotten through it many, many, many times. Type in "sexy girls" on google search and it'll get you through another night of pain. Good luck!
 
Okay, there's something else I've got to add.

I don't care about a freaking man card, or any of that stupid nonsense. I like this girl. And now, while she's going off living life all hunky-dory, I'm stuck crying myself to sleep. I'm falling to pieces here, folks. I don't have motivation to eat, to do school work.

I know how pathetic that sounds, and it is. I didn't think I would feel this way over a girl, and I don't want to. It's just how I feel. I guess the heart wants what the heart wants.

Thanks for humoring me.

Oh.

My.

God.

You know, I gotta' admit, I didn't read every post in this thread, so I missed the one above.

Dude, seriously, man up. If she were to read any of your posts in this thread, she wouldn't be able to get far enough away from you. Really, you're painting a picture of a man who no woman would want anything to do with. If you don't believe me, print this thread out and mail it to her, and then come back and let us know how quickly she was begging you to take her back.

The more you conduct yourself like this, the more other women will see you acting like this, and that will surely yield unfavorable results, because no woman within a thousand miles will want to have anything to do with you. Seriously, you need to move on. You're being pathetic...
 
He's a kid.

Lighten up on 'im.

ETA: And weird as it may seem, we're his friends.
 
He's a kid.

Lighten up on 'im.


Kid? He is 20!

Oh I forget, people these days aren't expected to responsible adults until they are 40.
 

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