Girl Trouble

Photographiend · Aug 28, 2013

Pay her back, apologize profusely, move on and most importantly learn from this instance.

In the dating world clingy is bad. I don't know why but I can honestly say clingy has never worked for me. And pining after a girl who has given you all the indicators that she is no longer interested is just that. If at some point she starts showing interest again, that is the point to reevaluate any potential for a relationship.

amolitor · Aug 28, 2013

He's a kid. Ain't you readin' his posts? Being 20 has nothing to do with it.

We are privileged in this society to mature at a variety of paces, now that we're no longer required to go start hunting with sticks at age 14. It's nice.

runnah · Aug 28, 2013

amolitor said:
We are privileged in this society to mature at a variety of paces, now that we're no longer required to go start hunting with sticks at age 14. It's nice.

Please, this immature "me me me" society is disgusting.

ffarl · Aug 28, 2013

This is amazing. It's the first thread I've read in it's entirety in weeks.

You ARE young to be worried about finding your soul mate, but no one has ever taken that advice in the history of mankind, and sometimes it does work out. Here's something you can use now and forever as far as relationships go:

You get what you put into a relationship. Put in honesty and you'll get it back (for better or worse. It might hurt, but it's the easiest in the long run). Put in strategy and posturing and manipulation and that's what you'll get back. What that tells me about your situation is this: If you're really interested in HER and not just having a girl, Call her (for the love of god don't ever text anything emotionally sensitive) and explain that you know the first date was kind of a ****show, but if she'd be agreeable, you'd like another shot at it.

If that happens to work, this is lesson two:

amolitor · Aug 28, 2013

Yeah yeah, kids this days. You get off my lawn too, runnah! I see you out there, lawning it up!

Tiller · Aug 28, 2013

I've always wondered, what are these kids doing on these lawns? What kind of lawns are they anyway?

PixelRabbit · Aug 28, 2013

ffarl said:
This is amazing. It's the first thread I've read in it's entirety in weeks.

You ARE young to be worried about finding your soul mate, but no one has ever taken that advice in the history of mankind, and sometimes it does work out. Here's something you can use now and forever as far as relationships go:

You get what you put into a relationship. Put in honesty and you'll get it back (for better or worse. It might hurt, but it's the easiest in the long run). Put in strategy and posturing and manipulation and that's what you'll get back. What that tells me about your situation is this: If you're really interested in HER and not just having a girl, Call her (for the love of god don't ever text anything emotionally sensitive) and explain that you know the first date was kind of a ****show, but if she'd be agreeable, you'd like another shot at it.

If that happens to work, this is lesson two:
YouTube Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ocj_sGKFOIA

Im desperately searching my brain for something witty and all I can hear in my head is the Joey in me asking...

How you doin'?

runnah · Aug 28, 2013

amolitor said:
Yeah yeah, kids this days. You get off my lawn too, runnah! I see you out there, lawning it up!

Kids are great on the lawn as long as they are pushing a mower.

amolitor · Aug 28, 2013

Tiller said:
I've always wondered, what are these kids doing on these lawns? What kind of lawns are they anyway?

I have no idea. The only time I ever see 'em they're leaving because of the crazy old coot yelling at them.

DGMPhotography · Aug 28, 2013

Sorry, I know I'm being pathetic, and that's the reason I'm definitely not printing out this thread and giving it to her. I've just been waiting for a long time for the right girl to come along and I thought I finally had a chance, and I did, and pretty much blew it. In the meantime, I'll trudge on.

I'll post back if anything changes.

Thanks, friends.

Braineack · Aug 28, 2013

Tiller said:
I've always wondered, what are these kids doing on these lawns? What kind of lawns are they anyway?

I'm still trying to catch the kid who rides his bike through mine... I SEE YOUR TRACKS!

Justman1020 · Aug 28, 2013

DGMPhotography said:
Sorry, I know I'm being pathetic, and that's the reason I'm definitely not printing out this thread and giving it to her. I've just been waiting for a long time for the right girl to come along and I thought I finally had a chance, and I did, and pretty much blew it. In the meantime, I'll trudge on.

I'll post back if anything changes.

Thanks, friends.

Seriously, theres so many women out there, dear god, you sound like a elementary kid who just got his favorite toy taken away before he got the chance to play with it....seriously, theres TON'S of women out there. You WILL find another of "The One" and probably another one after that and after that...relax.

nycphotography · Aug 28, 2013

Justman1020 said:
DGMPhotography said:

Sorry, I know I'm being pathetic, and that's the reason I'm definitely not printing out this thread and giving it to her. I've just been waiting for a long time for the right girl to come along and I thought I finally had a chance, and I did, and pretty much blew it. In the meantime, I'll trudge on.

I'll post back if anything changes.

Thanks, friends.

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Seriously, theres so many women out there, dear god, you sound like a elementary kid who just got his favorite toy taken away before he got the chance to play with it....seriously, theres TON'S of women out there. You WILL find another of "The One" and probably another one after that and after that...relax.

Well to be fair, ONLY IF HE BOTHERS TO LOOK FOR ONE. It sounds like he's taken a pretty passsive approach so far. "waiting for the one". Don't hold your breath cuz you'll be waiting a long time.

Know how they say the best cure for a hangover is a drink? The best cure for a bad date is... a date with new girl. But to have a date with a new girl... you have to be out there finding interesting ones and asking them out. I take it the OP isn't rich, and the girls don't swarm him at the mall, so he has to be actively looking and engaging them.