Girl Trouble

[cgipson1]

Dude...

get a license
get a car
get a job
get a life....

Then worry about chicks... otherwise you are wasting your time!

 

[Mach0]

I don't know - I sure haven't read the whole thread but on a first date I wouldn't have put my arm around her. I probably would've ended up calling it a day after the bad experience and not hang out with the friends after. There's always gotta be something to do next time. I would've paid her the same night ( If you had the funds.) Otherwise, forget that. Not going to do you any good. Get your life together and just go about your life. There's plenty more girls out there. Don't get sprung off a girl who you've flirted with only via text.

Friend zone isn't badddddd but you need to read her. There's been plenty of friends that I've hooked up with lol.

My lady and I have been together for years, have a house, daughter, dogs, etc..... We were friends ( of course we were attracted to each other ) for a year before we got together.

Currently, its hard for me to have lady friends. Aside from the women that are with my closest friends or the wives of them, I haven't had a single lady friend that hasn't dropped hints on me. With that being said, I would keep It moving... If she wants you and you're doing well, she will come around but given the vibes she's given I would play hard to get lol. It's in the noggin. Most people want a challenge. It's comes down to attract, acquire, retain. Yea it's a generalization but just put some thought in it.

 

[Mach0]

Here's the answer: Next time you're in a group setting with other girls, flirt BIG TIME with a girl that is less attractive than she is. It will drive her crazy because 1) you appear to no longer be interested in her and 2) this obviously less attractive girl is getting all your attention, and she gets none.

I know it sounds counter-intuitive, but it works.

I've always left them alone when they were with their friends. When they wanna hang out they will come to you. It's never failed me lol.

 

[kathyt]

Listen, cowboy, I had my heart crushed by a girl when I was 21. I thought she was "the one" too, but after about 4 or 5 months of dating her, I got dumped. We were never "together," if you will, but just went out on a few dates and had a great time. She married some doctor now and lives in a big house in El Paso. Who cares? I went to law school, got 2 law degrees, bought my OWN big house and married a real treasure who gave me 2 beautiful daughters. We've been married for 15 years now....

The point is that at age 20, you're too YOUNG to get tied down. My God, man, play the field. Learn to "play ball" (if you catch my drift). Go out, have fun, stop being so damn serious---just meet as many girls as you can and be yourself.

This reminds me of an old joke that I like to share: A daddy bull and a baby bull were on top of a hill looking down in the prairie valley below. The prairie was full of cows of all ages and sizes. The young bull says excitedly "Daddy! Daddy! Let's run down there and screw one of those cows!" The daddy bull responds: "No, son, let's walk down there and screw them all."

Got it, cowboy?

WTF Jdubs you filthy SOB!!!!! I thought I was "THE ONE!" You told ME I was your real treasure last weekend!!! We are sooooooo OVER!!!!!

 

[IByte]

..... this is the reason I stick to physics, and stay in the vmware world!!

 

[Mach0]

..... this is the reason I stick to physics, and stay in the vmware world!!

Haha I supply clients with plenty of VMware consultants. Lol

 

[The_Traveler]

Speaking from a position of reasonably good, and certainly extensive, experience, my opinion is that 'acting' in any certain way may get you females (or whatever gender you are after) but it is a very bad behavior in the long term.
The best way to attract whatever kind of person you will be happy with in the long run is to learn to be a good, honest person, straightforward and pleasant - and you will attract the same. Put on an act, adapt a persona, be a manipulator and you'll end up with someone who won't be happy with the real you.
If the real you isn't attractive, don't put on an act, change.

 

[Gavjenks]

Listen, cowboy, I had my heart crushed by a girl when I was 21. I thought she was "the one" too, but after about 4 or 5 months of dating her, I got dumped. We were never "together," if you will, but just went out on a few dates and had a great time. She married some doctor now and lives in a big house in El Paso. Who cares? I went to law school, got 2 law degrees, bought my OWN big house and married a real treasure who gave me 2 beautiful daughters. We've been married for 15 years now....

The point is that at age 20, you're too YOUNG to get tied down. My God, man, play the field. Learn to "play ball" (if you catch my drift). Go out, have fun, stop being so damn serious---just meet as many girls as you can and be yourself.

This reminds me of an old joke that I like to share: A daddy bull and a baby bull were on top of a hill looking down in the prairie valley below. The prairie was full of cows of all ages and sizes. The young bull says excitedly "Daddy! Daddy! Let's run down there and screw one of those cows!" The daddy bull responds: "No, son, let's walk down there and screw them all."

Got it, cowboy?

WTF Jdubs you filthy SOB!!!!! I thought I was "THE ONE!" You told ME I was your real treasure last weekend!!! We are sooooooo OVER!!!!!

...and gavjenks returns to his rightful position in door #1

 

[sleist]

2 - Don't give me that crap. I've heard that logic before. Following your train of thought, then no one should marry before they're 40 or older, which I find ridiculous.

There's no magic number, but age is still dramatically related to divorce rate.

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Another fun graph showing the earlier ranges in more detail, which are more dramatic than the longer term graph is able to show. Also, the second graph is actually % likelihood, not just per capita amounts in a single timeslice:
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So getting married at at just 25 instead of 18 for instance HALVES the likelihood of divorce in 10 years. No need to go as high as 40 to see huge results.

That's pretty interesting, though I wonder if those are normalized for death rates. Not that a lot of people die at 25... but plenty die at 60+.

Wouldn't zombies cancel out the impact of death rate?

 

[ronlane]

Speaking from a position of reasonably good, and certainly extensive, experience, my opinion is that 'acting' in any certain way may get you females (or whatever gender you are after) but it is a very bad behavior in the long term.
The best way to attract whatever kind of person you will be happy with in the long run is to learn to be a good, honest person, straightforward and pleasant - and you will attract the same. Put on an act, adapt a persona, be a manipulator and you'll end up with someone who won't be happy with the real you.
If the real you isn't attractive, don't put on an act, change.

The wise one speaks.

 

[sleist]

Girls don't play head

Not after they get married....

 

[mishele]

Girls don't play head

Not after they get married....

Haha I feel bad for you.

 

[sleist]

Girls don't play head

Not after they get married....

Haha I feel bad for you.

No worries - been divorced for years.

 

[kathyt]

Listen, cowboy, I had my heart crushed by a girl when I was 21. I thought she was "the one" too, but after about 4 or 5 months of dating her, I got dumped. We were never "together," if you will, but just went out on a few dates and had a great time. She married some doctor now and lives in a big house in El Paso. Who cares? I went to law school, got 2 law degrees, bought my OWN big house and married a real treasure who gave me 2 beautiful daughters. We've been married for 15 years now....

The point is that at age 20, you're too YOUNG to get tied down. My God, man, play the field. Learn to "play ball" (if you catch my drift). Go out, have fun, stop being so damn serious---just meet as many girls as you can and be yourself.

This reminds me of an old joke that I like to share: A daddy bull and a baby bull were on top of a hill looking down in the prairie valley below. The prairie was full of cows of all ages and sizes. The young bull says excitedly "Daddy! Daddy! Let's run down there and screw one of those cows!" The daddy bull responds: "No, son, let's walk down there and screw them all."

Got it, cowboy?

WTF Jdubs you filthy SOB!!!!! I thought I was "THE ONE!" You told ME I was your real treasure last weekend!!! We are sooooooo OVER!!!!!

...and gavjenks returns to his rightful position in door #1

.....and your even getting better with the funny, one liner comebacks! Your creeping up there gavjenks!

 

[jwbryson1]

Listen, cowboy, I had my heart crushed by a girl when I was 21. I thought she was "the one" too, but after about 4 or 5 months of dating her, I got dumped. We were never "together," if you will, but just went out on a few dates and had a great time. She married some doctor now and lives in a big house in El Paso. Who cares? I went to law school, got 2 law degrees, bought my OWN big house and married a real treasure who gave me 2 beautiful daughters. We've been married for 15 years now....

The point is that at age 20, you're too YOUNG to get tied down. My God, man, play the field. Learn to "play ball" (if you catch my drift). Go out, have fun, stop being so damn serious---just meet as many girls as you can and be yourself.

This reminds me of an old joke that I like to share: A daddy bull and a baby bull were on top of a hill looking down in the prairie valley below. The prairie was full of cows of all ages and sizes. The young bull says excitedly "Daddy! Daddy! Let's run down there and screw one of those cows!" The daddy bull responds: "No, son, let's walk down there and screw them all."

Got it, cowboy?

WTF Jdubs you filthy SOB!!!!! I thought I was "THE ONE!" You told ME I was your real treasure last weekend!!! We are sooooooo OVER!!!!!

Does this mean we're not moving in together anymore?