Hello, my name is Scott and I'm a photoholic.

[monkeykoder]

Condoms and birth control don't always work my friend.

My sister got pregnant with condoms, birth control AND got pregnant with an IUD!
4 times...

That is quite a feat IUDs have like a 99.99% success rate (measured by number of women using it divided by number that get pregnant using it. It is the #1 most effective device known for birth control too bad they decided it was unsafe. (I think it even has a better success rate than a woman getting her tubes tied).

 

[ScottS]

Condoms and birth control don't always work my friend.

My sister got pregnant with condoms, birth control AND got pregnant with an IUD!
4 times...

Which is why, in the end, having sex is making babies, and no matter what you do you have to be ready for the possibility of a baby...

Honestly it terrifies me, and that's why I haven't actually gone all the way... :/

 

[Big Bully]

#1 refused (a very small part of the reason we're not still together but still part) #2 well she had her own problems and it was best we broke up (sex is an integral part of my brain she didn't believe in sex before marriage) I probably should have just left her alone once I figured out she really meant it.

There is nothing wrong with girls that believe in no sex before marriage. They view it as special and not something to be handed out like popcorn.

 

[monkeykoder]

There is nothing wrong with girls that believe in no sex before marriage. They view it as special and not something to be handed out like popcorn.

I agree with that I also believe that I'm not exactly capable of waiting that long... Heck I'm even okay with waiting months a year maybe 2 but after a point it gets ridiculous.

 

[Big Bully]

That is quite a feat IUDs have like a 99.99% success rate (measured by number of women using it divided by number that get pregnant using it. It is the #1 most effective device known for birth control too bad they decided it was unsafe. (I think it even has a better success rate than a woman getting her tubes tied).

It is actually 99.2%. I don't see why it isn't safe... I have one, but I think i have gotten prego with it twice just lost both of the babies, before I really knew I was pregnant.

Which is why, in the end, having sex is making babies, and no matter what you do you have to be ready for the possibility of a baby...

Honestly it terrifies me, and that's why I haven't actually gone all the way... :/

There is nothing wrong with that... Sex is a BIG deal. And a big responsibility. If you aren't ready.. Don't push it.

 

[ScottS]

It is special..

 

[Big Bully]

I agree with that I also believe that I'm not exactly capable of waiting that long... Heck I'm even okay with waiting months a year maybe 2 but after a point it gets ridiculous.

Well if you are dating THAT long, commit or get out of the pool. If she wanted to have sex after marriage, then she should have committed to you.
And second, of course you can... It is all about will power.

 

[Phazan]

Hmmm, not sure how everyone got on the topic of sex, but I'm not gonna read a million pages back to find out!

I decided I am going to pop in and out (Non sexually of course...ew) in this conversation...I can't keep up with all you!

So...that's my contribution for today.

 

[Big Bully]

It is special..

You are right!

 

[Big Bully]

Hmmm, not sure how everyone got on the topic of sex, but I'm not gonna read a million pages back to find out!

I decided I am going to pop in and out (Non sexually of course...ew) in this conversation...I can't keep up with all you!

So...that's my contribution for today.

We got on the topic of sex, because of pics that are no longer there.. lol

 

[monkeykoder]

It is actually 99.2%. I don't see why it isn't safe... I have one, but I think i have gotten prego with it twice just lost both of the babies, before I really knew I was pregnant.



There is nothing wrong with that... Sex is a BIG deal. And a big responsibility. If you aren't ready.. Don't push it.

It has something to do with the fact that you can lose track of it up in there... And what it does it keeps a pregnancy from sticking... I agree with sex being a big deal I almost wish I would have understood that before #1 pushed me into it. It is worth waiting for fun but not exactly the best thing since sliced bread unless both of you are into it an committed to eachother.

 

[monkeykoder]

Well if you are dating THAT long, commit or get out of the pool. If she wanted to have sex after marriage, then she should have committed to you.
And second, of course you can... It is all about will power.

We had been engaged for the last 6 months of that time then she decided to go off with another guy.

 

[monkeykoder]

We got on the topic of sex, because of pics that are no longer there.. lol

You know you never did explain about the banana PM?

 

[Big Bully]

It has something to do with the fact that you can lose track of it up in there... And what it does it keeps a pregnancy from sticking... I agree with sex being a big deal I almost wish I would have understood that before #1 pushed me into it. It is worth waiting for fun but not exactly the best thing since sliced bread unless both of you are into it an committed to eachother.

Yep, it keeps it from sticking. Which sucks if you think about it. But I don't want anymore kids, and I was too young to get my tubes tied, so this is what I had to do...
You are right, sex can suck if you aren't committed to each other. And being pushed into it, is no way to have it either.

We had been engaged for the last 6 months of that time then she decided to go off with another guy.

Damn that sucks... Sorry.

 

[Big Bully]

You know you never did explain about the banana PM?

Don't worry... I will.. lol