How did I learn? Soo soo soo many ways.
I am a self taught photographer. In 3 years I have come a long way. It hasnt been easy, but it has been fun. For anyone who is about to step foot in this world, this would be my advice. Hopefully it can be of some use for you.
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1) Practice, with purpose.
Don't just go out and take pictures, but practice skills. Set aside time to focus on specific skills, like controlling your DOF. Freezing your subject. Using the rule of thirds.
2) Read.
Read a basics book. Read your camera manual. Read blogs, websites, tips, tricks etc. Then read it all again.
3) Get Critique.
Find your best work, and let people rip it apart. Try not to get defensive (its HARD) but see it for what it is- your image isnt perfect, despite what your mom, friends, and facebook all say. and then USE THAT FEEDBACK. Above all, this was the biggest reason my work has improved. A good ol reality check will help keep your ego in line and your skills growing.
4) Give Critique.
When you are viewing a thread that is asking for critique, comment on why you like or dislike an image. Practising your critiqing skills can help you develop into a better photographer, as I find the emotional attachment we have with our own images can make it harder to honestly critique our own work.
5) Get Involved.
Joid camera clubs, facebook groups, fundraisers, etc where you can surround yourself with others who also want to learn and share information. Try to give as much as you receive. Participate when you can, and give back what you receive.
6) Grab a roll of film.
A very quick way to work on your composition, and all technical aspects of photography, is with film. You only get that one chance. Grab a notebook and a few rolls of film, and then get out there and shoot. Have the prints developed, and look at where you went wrong. Refer back to your notebook and check your settings with the results. Film is a great way to teach you how to SLOW DOWN and think before you press the button.
7) Take a break.
Although practice practice and more practice is a good thing, its always good to take a few breaks. It's okay to leave the house without your camera. Its okay to just grab the point and shoot while you are on vacation. I found when I had my camera with me, I was always expected to be "on". I missed out on many moments over the past 3 years when I wish I was more present, and less concerned about capturing the moment.
All the best to you!!!
Kristal