Nytmair
TPF Noob!
Get ready for me to sound like a little girl.. but oh well, I just need a lot of opinions on this... hence posting this on a public forum where I could get made fun of, but hopefully I can get at least some honest advice.
So I'm a 20 year old college student, and last night and today is the first time i've cried since i was a little kid.. my girlfriend broke up with me becuase she said things didn't feel the same anymore.. like we were more like friends. I don't get it though, last weekend (the 9th) was our 3 month anniversary. It was amazing. We took about an hour drive out to the country and took a "fall foliage" train ride where we rode on a historic train through the country. We were so happy then... but i guess it fell apart since then, and I don't know where. Then yesterday the punch in the face came. To sum it up...
"You know I will always love you, but it's not the same.."
"So is this it?"
"...I guess.."
and then i just felt horrible. I drove over to a local park where we used to go together and had so many good times... I just sat there for a long time.. and I cried. I didn't know what to do, all of this **** going through my head.. I can't stop thinking about her, no matter what I do. Everything reminds me of her. I just don't know what to do.. it hurts so bad.
I never wanted to think about what heartbreak was like, since I've never experienced it in my life.. and it's the worst thing I could have ever imagined...
How do you guys and gals go about getting over this kind of thing..? I've never had to and I just feel so lost right now.
Thanks for anything...
-Dan
Sorry for such a bleeding heart emotional post... I figured it might spice up the general discussion forum ...
So I'm a 20 year old college student, and last night and today is the first time i've cried since i was a little kid.. my girlfriend broke up with me becuase she said things didn't feel the same anymore.. like we were more like friends. I don't get it though, last weekend (the 9th) was our 3 month anniversary. It was amazing. We took about an hour drive out to the country and took a "fall foliage" train ride where we rode on a historic train through the country. We were so happy then... but i guess it fell apart since then, and I don't know where. Then yesterday the punch in the face came. To sum it up...
"You know I will always love you, but it's not the same.."
"So is this it?"
"...I guess.."
and then i just felt horrible. I drove over to a local park where we used to go together and had so many good times... I just sat there for a long time.. and I cried. I didn't know what to do, all of this **** going through my head.. I can't stop thinking about her, no matter what I do. Everything reminds me of her. I just don't know what to do.. it hurts so bad.
I never wanted to think about what heartbreak was like, since I've never experienced it in my life.. and it's the worst thing I could have ever imagined...
How do you guys and gals go about getting over this kind of thing..? I've never had to and I just feel so lost right now.
Thanks for anything...
-Dan
Sorry for such a bleeding heart emotional post... I figured it might spice up the general discussion forum ...