@limr, the most important is the context. If you're referring to some strangers, I agree calling them boy/girl is not a good way to go. However, if you know the person and you're among friends, it's perfectly fine. I know many people around 40-50 who often refer to themselves as boys and girls when they meet.
I agree with @Destin on this one, people are getting waaay oversensitive these days... This thread should be about dealing with hair in post-process, not one of those PC debates. Just because OP called the human female "a girl"...
Not everyone is like "oh I am an independent strong woman and you should refer to me as such you puny earthling!". Maybe she likes feeling a bit younger and OP knows her well.
@DGMPhotography , did you show her the picture yet? I'd probably ask her first and then schedule a re-shoot if she's not happy. Trying to solve things like this in post is usually not worth it and simple re-shoot would be better and faster.
I'm not really here for politics. Just wanna de-frizz this woman's hair.
Talk about reading into a comment. Where did I say that 'woman' should refer to a certain kind of woman? As for the 'oversensitive' charge...yeah yeah, heard it before, will hear it again, not particularly bothered to worry about what others think. I'm talking about precision in language. It's inaccurate to call someone past childhood either 'girl' or 'boy.'
But what about if your dating someone when you're in your 30's are they not still boyfriend/girlfriend?
You're whole argument is unraveling by the second!
Talk about reading into a comment. Where did I say that 'woman' should refer to a certain kind of woman? As for the 'oversensitive' charge...yeah yeah, heard it before, will hear it again, not particularly bothered to worry about what others think. I'm talking about precision in language. It's inaccurate to call someone past childhood either 'girl' or 'boy.'
But what about if your dating someone when you're in your 30's are they not still boyfriend/girlfriend?
You're whole argument is unraveling by the second!
Trapped in my own web of over-sensitivity!
When did I say you said it? Maybe my English skills are severely lacking, but all I said is that it all depends on the context in which this happens and it's perfectly fine if both parties are comfortable with it.Talk about reading into a comment. Where did I say that 'woman' should refer to a certain kind of woman? As for the 'oversensitive' charge...yeah yeah, heard it before, will hear it again, not particularly bothered to worry about what others think. I'm talking about precision in language. It's inaccurate to call someone past childhood either 'girl' or 'boy.'
That's obviously why you're here, explaining yourself and expressing your opinions on a public forum. Because you just don't carenot particularly bothered to worry about what others think
I'm not really here for politics. Just wanna de-frizz this woman's hair.
And just like that you learned something extra.![]()
Could be a static electricity that causes the frizzed?