Manaheim wrote, "It's ironic that the MOST important pictures to take are pretty much hell on wheels because one of the key subjects is all in black and one is all in white. Tough to make the camera handle that really well"
Actually, Fuji made two camera designed specifically to handle this type of situation: the Fuji S3 Pro, and the Fuji S5 Pro. Both cameras have the widest dynamic range of any normal d-slr camera,and with *most* of the added dynamic range being in the highlight region, where most other d-slr cameras fall flat.
There is also now D-Lighting in newer Nikon bodies, which tends to try and handle these situations with in-camera image processing. But the Fuji S3 and S5 models were designed with wedding and people/event work in mind. Among those who use the Fuji d-slrs, they are well-known for being able to easily handle white wedding dresses and black tuxedos in the same frame, in any kind of lighting-sunlight,shade, or even mixed,dappled sunlight coming in through trees...
Oh,and yes, the original photo looks too dark,and the white balance appears off as well. It appears overly saturated and too dark; several different approaches could be used to make the photo have more snap. I opened the photo in PS,and the histogram is totally smashed up against the left side,indicating massive underexposure. I adjusted the Red,Green,and Blue levels individually on the highlight side, and then just lifted up the curves about 3/4 of the way into the upper area of the curves line, and Presto! The dress looked perfect, the tux looked perfect, and the image looked like it was taken at 5:30 on a beautiful,sunny afternoon; this image could benefit dramatically by being lightened up. The histogram is so,so far from the right hand edge that you've allowed massive highlight protection on the dress, so much that all of the tonal values are terribly compressed--you need to expand the tonal range of this image so that it has more life, more local contrast. As-shown, you've got almost the entire tonal range compressed and the lower and especially the middle tones are too close together, leading to very dull,lifeless shadow values and "buried" middle tonal values.
Here is my 10-second adjustment,done on a very small file. I am sure that from the .NEF file this image would look absolutely fantastic!
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