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That is what seems to be the situation now.
In six weeks from now, things might look all different!!! Who knows.
If you don't dig yourself into a burrow now, blaming yourself all the while or accepting all the blame, then Michelle might still see what a good partner and step-father for her kids you are ... and even if you might not get back to being a couple, you might still get the chance to see your step-children grow up!!! My best friend is in partnership with a man now who has never had kids of his own, he is now accepting hers and was before accepting those of his previous woman-friend, and they still come along to his mother's birthday, for example, as if they were his own kids! And my friend is accepting those two boys as "his step-sons" just naturally. Despite the fact that he never got any RIGHTS over those kids, by law, for he has never been married. And I am sure when that relationship to his previous woman-friend broke up, he felt as down and disappointed and sad and left out and without rights and all that.
Time will tell that it need not be like that.
In six weeks from now, things might look all different!!! Who knows.
If you don't dig yourself into a burrow now, blaming yourself all the while or accepting all the blame, then Michelle might still see what a good partner and step-father for her kids you are ... and even if you might not get back to being a couple, you might still get the chance to see your step-children grow up!!! My best friend is in partnership with a man now who has never had kids of his own, he is now accepting hers and was before accepting those of his previous woman-friend, and they still come along to his mother's birthday, for example, as if they were his own kids! And my friend is accepting those two boys as "his step-sons" just naturally. Despite the fact that he never got any RIGHTS over those kids, by law, for he has never been married. And I am sure when that relationship to his previous woman-friend broke up, he felt as down and disappointed and sad and left out and without rights and all that.
Time will tell that it need not be like that.