I hate to sound harsh but I have to be honest. That's not just a little blown out... that's a LOT blown out. The face is blown the fingers are blown and whatever the foreground was is unrecognizable but I'll assume based on the context of the photo that it used to be a bed mattress.
The way you light a photo can inspire emotion -- lighting can be VERY powerful if you learn to use it.
Go to Google.com, select the "images" category and then type in the search terms: high key photography
Look at the search results.
Now change the search terms to: low key photography
Look at the search results again.
Notice the stark contrast in the two styles? A high key image (which is bright, loaded with near-white tones but not technically "blown out") can inspire emotions of angelic, purity, hope, happiness, joy, peace, innocence, etc. A low key image can inspire feelings of loneliness, despair, abandonment, etc. which you think of as negative feelings, but interestingly enough it might (depending on the subject) also inspire thoughts of solitude, hope, or peace which are positive feelings.
How you light the image can be very powerful, but you do have to control it.
While your daughter is in a cute pose and I can understand your fondness for her, this particular photo is tragically over-exposed with a flash that went nuclear on you.