I went to a store and held what they had available... Nikon D90, Nikon D5000, Canon XSi and Canon XTi. They were very different. I personally like the Nikon and the D90 felt very nice to both my SO and I. I appreciate the Canon ideas and offers. KmH, I have been eying those in the BuySell forum, but thanks for the links.
The D90 is well beyond our abilities and right now we have a lot of expenses, we are getting married next weekend and we would like to get pregnant this year.
Everyone has been very helpful, patient, and very quick to respond on this forum. Thank you very much. I have narrowed it down to the following options available to us today:
D5000 (
B&H) body only $600 or with 18-55 for $699
D40 (used on here) with 18-55, 55-200, and 50mm (manual) $600
D60 (used on here) battery, charger, 2 memory cards, battery grip, book & dvd's $400
D80 (used on here) battery $425
Will I really notice a big difference with the D5000 Gen II? If not, I am leaning towards the D60 or D80 because then I can pick up either a 35 f/1.8 for $200 or a 18-55 for $100 - therefore stepping into a decent camera for around $525- $600.
Thanks again,
Jason