ItzBitzHair,
I just wanted to offer some sincere advice. I think I know why you are getting the harsh responses.
I believe it is in the way you came into the forums as a new poster, and you put up this list of all kinds of expensive gear, and it seemed as though you were basically asking people how to use all this gear because you have all these business ventures so you want everyone here to explain the best way to take photos for all these different situations with all your different gear.
I think 99% of the people here are very passionate about photography. They come here really wanting to learn because they love photography. Most of the people here will probably do photography their whole lives, and if they make money at it, great! But if they don't, they will probably still do photography. Most of the people take years with really low level cameras and go out and shoot and experiment and gain experience until they can afford to buy that nicer camera. Then they start to get lenses, and slowly build up their gear.
But to have someone come on here with a grocery list of expensive gear and hardly any knowledge how to use it, but to expect someone to explain it to them in a few posts might be kind of offending to some who have worked years and years and put in countless hours of taking photographs in order to hone their skill.
I think you kind of have to ease in, get to know people a little more, and maybe post threads with one or two specific questions at a time. (Such as, "What do you think is the best light to use for portrait photography for a hair magazine?" or something to that effect) You will get a lot more responses this way. You're not likely to find someone who will sit down and post you a list of different shooting scenarios and which way to shoot for each scenario and that sort of thing. That's because most of us have learned this ourselves by shooting, and experimenting and reading. You can find a lot of good info in a lot of good photography books.
I'm not trying to be rude, just a friendly observation. I think it just looks to a lot of people like you simply want to make money and want to know the easiest way to do it, but I could be wrong and maybe everyone else is to.
Anyway, I don't mean to rant.